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Newsflash, ladies: men don’t owe you a relationship if you don’t work on yourself! Otherwise, you’ll become an bhean díomhaoin!

ScribhneoirIldanach

October 8, 2022
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Title Newsflash, ladies: men don’t owe you a relationship if you don’t work on yourself! Otherwise, you’ll become an bhean díomhaoin!
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ScribhneoirIldanach

Upvotes 237
Comments 81
Date October 8, 2022 5:58 AM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/xykyb7/newsflash_ladies_men_dont_owe_you_a_relationship/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/newsflash-ladies-men-dont-owe-you-a-relationship.1134645
https://theredarchive.com/post/1134645
Top posts by ScribhneoirIldanach

Let’s remember that “government assistance” is actually taxpayer assistance. Never forget that Big Daddy Government steals your hard-earned cash to support súmairí gan úsáid like her

283 upvotes
July 23, 2022
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No amount of whining will force anyone to like the fact that you’re an súmaire síol who slept with multiple men. Actions have consequences, you know!

262 upvotes
July 26, 2022
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Genital herpes and an allergy to condoms.... what a mix this sleabhcán is 😳

198 upvotes
August 20, 2022
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This gealtán deserves every pump and dump she gets along with the single motherhood she's destined for

189 upvotes
August 5, 2022
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I wonder why this cruimh can't find a boyfriend....

172 upvotes
July 21, 2022
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Be the responsible, stable provider for all the immature mistakes this múitseálaí isn’t accountable for! I sense she’s already counting your paycheck by the first date!

167 upvotes
December 24, 2022
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Gynosupremacist hates that Western men don’t want her aiteann mídhúchasach. Not my problem, but I’ll grab some popcorn & get comfy, then continue wife-hunting for a lovely Eastern European lady

165 upvotes
December 3, 2022
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I see now why she has to have OnlyFans. With that kind of attitude, she would be raicleach na banríon™️

160 upvotes
June 17, 2022
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Comments

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] [score hidden] 3 years ago stickied comment (5 children) | Copy Link

Reminder that making fun of fat people (and her being fat) will be removed to comply with reddit's rule 1.

https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360045715951

If you want to have an uncensored conversation, you can go the original link.

Also, anyone asking for a link will be banned from here for a month. You've been warned.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 106 points107 points108 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She is clearly hitting on good looking men, I think "fat men" she talks about have few kilos extra while she herself is enormously obese. Has she tried hitting on 150cm and 140 kilo man, that is, herself? I bet she would say "I have my preferences, teehee".

And no, men do not care about your better car (taken on credit), instead driving a car you can afford.

I would also say no to this entitled lardess, she is not entitled to a good man.

[–]NBA_MSG 51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And the best part is she still judges them. She wrote "even fat dudes act like they're too good for me." She is literally doing the exact thing that she criticizes men for.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course. It goes back to old hipocrisy "Men are not allowed to have standards", that all ugly women think.

[–]One-Move 104 points105 points106 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

280 lbs at 5 1 is not fat its morbidly obese

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Especially on a woman that is not going to have the same baseline musculoskeletal density as a man. She'll be bordering on being wider than she is tall.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You may not like it, but it is what peak female looks like.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Mountainous if true.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Groundbreaking if factual.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Earth shattering idea.

[–]One-Move 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed, I am 53 5ft 7 and at 175 I feel fat

[–]jor4288 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s not bad at all, amigo.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Technically, it's "super obese." She would need to lose 16 pounds to qualify as morbidly obese.

[–]One-Move 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck we have even supersized that

[–]putspussyonpedestal 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SSBBW is the term.

[–]CincinnatusQLucius 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No no no, she conditionalized her weight by saying “she still gets around pretty well.” That tells me you better add +30 to the actual weight number.

[–]One-Move 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Grandma Miller at 89 can say she still gets around pretty well!

[–]TriumphAnt462X0 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, according to the BMI calculator I used (Omnicalculator,) - I'm not making this up - they use the term: "Super obese [class V]" Just guessing, I'm thinking this leaves 'morbidly obese' in the dust.

[–]rad1om 68 points69 points70 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

She got absolutely roasted in the comments section too. And she deserved every little bit of that.

[–]mmnnButter 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the skinny bitches laid into her for ruining their meal ticket

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You are making her hungry, you said roasted.

[–]XavierMalory 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In her case, I bet it’s “dry” roasted

[–]LaLa_Land543Married Wahmyns 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fried roasted

[–]IanHawkess1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

‘You’re just giving them what they want’. Yeah. Yeah, you are. That’s kinda how this whole thing works. You absolutely need to care about what the other sex thinks of you if you want to be in a relationship with them. This goes both ways.

It’s actually a bit sad. I don’t think she really hates men, she just hates the situation she’s in. But weight is (relatively speaking) one of those things that can be controlled (yes yes, there are outliers with various health conditions but this lady isn’t one) so I also have limited sympathy.

I think feminism has lied to women in so many ways, but ‘you do do, men just don’t deserve you’ from her ‘friends’ (I bet most of whom are slender and married/coupled) is really bad advice. Men are allowed to have preferences, standards and things they want. We’ve (as a society) spent so long pressuring men not to articulate it, but they haven’t gone away.

[–]silly_birb_Banned 71 points72 points73 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Bill Burr made a joke about women lying to fat women

"You go girl, you are beautiful!"
turns around "I would kill myself if i was that fat!"

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thin women love Fat Acceptance cos it makes them look better in comparison.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There was a comedian named the Love Goddess. She talked about her "Large" Roommate who got arrested for shoplifting in Houston, TX.. The Astrodome fell out of her back pocket.

[–]LaLa_Land543Married Wahmyns 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yo mamma’s so fat her belt size is the Equator.

[–]Psijic_Buff 54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

5’1 and 280 is she wider than she is tall

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Oval laying on it's side.

5ft1in and 280lbs.

Damn.

Dwayne Johnson would go on disability lifting this squealer.

[–]Quirky-Touch7616 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bruhhhhh 😂😂😂😂

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

😁

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey. You got something against swine?

[–]Land_of_the_Losers1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I found her picture online, and the jpeg made my phone feel half a kilogram heavier.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You will need 6 swipes to get past her photo.

[–]BobbingForBunionsSr. Hamster Analyst 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not sure about the solution, lady. But I'm pretty sure it doesn't include hating and insulting men.

[–]XavierMalory 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dennis Leary has a great suggestion:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qcky-f_hfHE

[–]NutsLikeMelons 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Calls men entitled. Feels entitled to a boyfriend.

Not to mention 280lbs is like a normal weight woman carrying me. That’s a lot of lard.

[–]One-Move 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, that’s wife and I together 😱

[–]HxCMurph 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm 6' 200, can't imagine being with someone so short, yet so wide. Absolutely not

[–]RaptorJesusLOL 36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I love that “I get around” is a qualifier here, as if still being able to move is an accomplishment

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At 280 it is

[–]XavierMalory 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I get around…

…in an overtaxed motor scooter.

[–]GeneralCategory6366 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She can actually shave off about 160 lbs of her own DNA and make her own man. It can be like a reverse Adam and Eve, a man in her own image. If she wants to get creative; she can make a 150lb man and a 10lb baby; that'll leave her at 120lbs, about where a 5'1" woman should be. That'll be a western "modern" womans dream. Don't lose weight; just grow your own man using back fat.

[–]LordFlakkko1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Keep crying fatty... your tears warm my heart.

[–]CisgenderPig1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

She probably cries bacon grease.

[–]Training-Rich5057 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

She hates men and she is fat. Throw her away! She is unworthy of any money, energy, attention, and time from a man. Put and APB out to all men to leave this one alone for the foreseeable future. Leave this man hater alone.

[–]Chgralac731 points 3 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Throw her away!

how?

[–]Training-Rich5057 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If you know her, Ghost her. Remove your presence from her life, she is not worthy of men if she hates men.

[–]Chgralac731 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

how do you throw 280 lbs?

[–]ProfitgluttonThot-ese translator 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

“If I can’t have what I want then no one should…wahhhhh”

Cry harder. Either lose the weight or die alone.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cry harder

That's a lot of water

[–]Joaquino7997 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How many times have women proclaimed their wants and needs, find men who meet damn near all of them (if not more) and those guys still end up in the friend zone??

At least she KNOWS why she's being rejected!

Since she knows the problem, why not fix it??

[–]SnakeEyeskidthrew her a dildo then went to play Zelda 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great work ethics.. Hmm. Maybe she should try some workout ethics?

"Here's my masculine qualities, why do girls that are less of a man get relationships just cuz they care about what men wants? REEEEEEE!"

[–]Apprehensive-War-305 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

y'know, there is a solution to her problem. That's whether or not she has the self discipline though

[–]CSM_PepperMike Judge was an optimist 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No wonder her only friends are a clown, a redhead girl and an older southern gentleman.

That's inaccurate. She's also friends with the sailor man, a little Roman emperor, and a male monarch. She also has an interest in underground transportation systems.

[–]RedBlow22 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Took me a sec...

[–]NBA_MSG 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I still get around pretty well"??? Does she think the sticking point is that we don't think fat people can move? Like we're afraid they'll just topple over at some point and that's why men aren't attracted to them?

[–]XavierMalory 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, its just than guys really don’t like the mental image of rolling that person around in flour to find the wet spot.

[–]LVL50JustThisGuy 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"You better stop having standards, 'cause...muh feels."

You owe it to her to Stop Being Male, so she can find other reasons to hate you & complain.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

at 5'1" and 280, she's beyond the clinical definition of morbidly obese; she's "super obese."

[–]SCCock 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a foot taller and 49 pounds lighter and am working off my fat.

Just maybe if she did the same.

[–]Chipped-Beef 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

“And he’d better be at least 6’ tall. I have my standards.”

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And he’d better be at least 6’ tall. I have my standards.”

And not weight more than 190.

[–]PDub2222 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Develop past biology, except when women only go for the top 20% of men and look at height and in many cases muscles above all else

[–]ScribhneoirIldanachThot Shaming Gaeilgeoir[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Gaelige―Béarla Translations:

  • an bhean díomhaoin = “inspin | worthless woman”

[–]throwawa-y1x7 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How fat is 280lb?

[–]Lazy_Osprey 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For someone 5’1 ? Very.

[–]Internet_Snowflake 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

How fat is 280lb?

Extreme.

[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here, you see the penchant for women to project their standards onto guys. Because she cares about occupation, intelligence and salary men must care about it too.

[–]Luv2cu78 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I laugh out loud reading this.

[–]mike30171 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Typical female attitude, nothing is wrong with her being the size she is, something is wrong with men because they are not attracted to her. Besides someone that size being grossly unattractive to 99.8 % of the male population, letting yourself get to that size is a red flag concerning your approach to life -- it screams laziness and sloth and that there are other issues, likely mental, that you don't want to address so you turn to food. Why would anyone want to sign up that that?

[–]EvidencePlz 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wow is she an female incel (aka femcel)? Absolutely Looks like it. She's genuinely angry. I really feel sorry for incels and femcels. They need our support and not hatred.

[–]ScribhneoirIldanachThot Shaming Gaeilgeoir[S] 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The term you're looking for is inspin (involuntary spinster), a reflection of the fact that while women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships.

[–]temerity18 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Straight up "spinster" seems to work best.

No need to invent new words when the age old one is succinct and accurate.

[–]dirtyMathematician 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

who hurt her ? /s

[–]Internet_Snowflake 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Giant size dildos?

[–]KhasingKoochie 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a NFL lineman

[–]Grammar-Notsee_ 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think her bitterness is showing on the outside too. Maybe, just maybe that's why they all turn her down?

[–]CSGOSucksMajorDick 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As a guy who actually doesn't mind being with bigger women (although it's not preferred), this woman's attitude is the real problem. I'm not going anywhere near someone who screams "I fucking hate men!!"

I once dated an overweight woman and she was genuine and kind. She had a thyroid issue and worked out more often than I do. Sometimes you can't help genetics.

[–]Njhunting 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'Just rewire your brain to want shit it dosen't want' wow thanks

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