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Do you guys hold hands with your women when you're out in public?

gisking

August 31, 2017
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Title Do you guys hold hands with your women when you're out in public?
Author

gisking

Upvotes 4
Comments 17
Date August 31, 2017 7:02 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
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Comments

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Puiblic display of affection is something she has to earn and that you use to reinforce good behaviour.

[–]Theebenedetto11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Good behavior like sitting or not barking at guest

[–]refusewool9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not licking your guest's balls

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's not fair to compare her to a dog. You will have to lower your standards in order to give her a realistic chance.

[–]scrodzilla5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, my dog listens to me and is loyal

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hm.

[–]jb_trp7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sometimes. Women like it and get turned on if you lead them. So if we're out bar hopping I'll sometimes hold her hand while walking, or let her put her arm through mine. She loves it. But you need to make sure you don't come across as needy/clingy. There's a subtle difference sometimes, so be careful. If she's shit testing me, no... She needs to reach out after I pass the test.

[–]mountainbiker1780 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Just when I feel like I'm starting to get a handle on applying redpill to my LTR, I find another nuance to be mindful of.

[–]Endorsed Contributorcholomite5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, if I feel like it.

[–]Terdmuffin5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer she hold my arm. Not really into holding hands a lot.

[–]IVIaskerade1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really. They can hold my arm and I sometimes have my arm around their waist.

I'll take her hand to lead her somewhere, though.

[–]awayofthought1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. There is no easier way of showcasing your dominance than taking your woman's hand and leading her through a crowd of people, especially if she feels uneasy.

Mini FR: My LTR and I went to a fireworks display on the 4th. When the fireworks stopped, we were suddenly surrounded by high school kids and other rowdy autists. The fireworks amped everyone up and there was a ton of commotion i.e. running around, tackling each other, grabassing. So I just took my girl's hand, and led us out of there. We got back to the apartment and she threw herself at me before I could lock the door.

Do what you want, but I like to lead.

[–]bidric0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only when she reaches out to hold my hand. It's probably a personal thing though.

[–]do_it_or_leave0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do

[–]Peter_B_Long0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LTR yes. Plate, not really. I would hold hands with a girl I'm trying to fuck so I can build kino. With a plate I wouldn't hold hands.. I'd smack her ass and lead her with a hand on her lower back when necessary.

[–]apskidb-2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

LOL, no.

[–]2K_HOF_AI0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why not?

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