It feels as if real life encounters are held up as some gateway for a men to get into relationships however if anything I've always found that real life is far more unforgiving. Take my workplace, there is a select few guys that all the girls seem to gush over and every other guy is just sidelined in their minds. I doubt they even give the average guys a second thought. Least with OLD it contextualises the male in a dating context and might prime women to see him more sexually and romantically than if she saw him in person. I honestly match with girls on OLD that am sure in real life wouldn't look qt me.