What do small penis guys do?

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-04-27T21:12:11+00:00

Won’t lie and say size doesn’t matter at all, but it has to be pretty abnormally small to be an issue tbh. I feel like a lot of average guys think they are small due to porn. The resulting complex about their totally normal dick creates an issue that wouldn’t otherwise be there... one more thing to thank porn for.

figuringMylife · 2022-04-27T20:43:37+00:00

eat my booty like groceries

GlowingAsItDazzles · 2022-04-27T20:09:49+00:00

This cultural thing about big dicks is infecting people's minds at this point.

you read that post and came away with the idea that her issue with the small penis was cultural rather than physiological? like, how does that happen?

HumanNumber348 · 2022-04-27T20:42:10+00:00

I don’t really like getting head/don’t really have the most sensitive clit so I’m not getting off that way.

Duuude, read the fucking post you are linking. When you cherry pick the posts that reinforce your doomer mindset, you’ll always find the specific women who are like this. Lots of women love getting head. Find those women and get them off with your mouth instead.

sublimemongrel · 2022-04-27T20:41:17+00:00

So this woman is asking an honest question, admitting she feels guilty about it, and seeking genuine advice in a non-derogatory manner, and your solution is wishing that her future hypothetical sons suffer from the same thing and have “self-image” issues? You obviously empathize with the guy she’s sleeping with so why would you wish that upon anyone?

What’s she supposed to do? Laugh at him instead or just ignore what she believes is an issue in their sex life?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-04-27T19:38:01+00:00

Become the gold medal standard in foreplay. That’s right: learn to love giving oral to her. Make multiple orgasms a warm up to the main event.

Think of it like a football team. You might not have the best defense, so you are just gonna out score them.

gladusgates · 2022-04-27T19:56:35+00:00

Well, he just has to keep trying, nothing more he can do besides that. He'll have to deal with insults/word of mouth about how small his dick is for the rest of his life which will affect him greatly. Of course, this will not be seen as body shaming.

Normally I'd never recommend this, but his is a special case. His best bet is to put off sex as long as possible and build as much rapport/attachment as he can with a woman. She may then be reluctant to cut him off when she sees the size of his wiener.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-27T19:30:22+00:00

In my experience, women tend to over estimate, so if she says 3 it may be even smaller.

But either way, not beating around it. Size does matter and it matters more to some women than others. Some women don't care at all. If you're small, look for one who doesn't care that much, I guess.

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2022-04-27T19:58:35+00:00

Those guys will do the same thing people with other serious disabilities do. Just cope the best they can, and try to enjoy their life the best they can.

They're probably going to have to focus on lots and lots of oral, and find a girl that isn't really into penetration. There's lots of girls suffering with vaginismus who small dick men would be perfect for.

2022-04-27T20:00:42+00:00

So is your solution for her to pretend that she feels anything and enjoys it?

heartheartdoki96 · 2022-04-27T19:29:51+00:00

Women aren't blind lol. 3 inches is not something you mistake. 5 is the average and that's what I'd prefer. Most women don't want huge dicks either. Most women want a penis that fits fully inside them and stimulates them. So 8 inches won't fit in most women. 3 inches won't stimulate a lot of women.

What are those guys options? Give good head, wear extenders, get into kink communities. And dudes with big dicks need to do more work too, most women won't be able to fit 8 inches in a vagina comfortably so unless a woman likes anal dudes with big dicks will have to deal with their dicks hanging out, they'll have to go slow and be more gentle than most peopl3 wanna be when having sex

But south Korea has one of the smallest dick sizes on average and women report high sexual satisfaction. Because the men try and put effort into pleasing their partners.

The_Entertainer217 · 2022-04-27T21:44:00+00:00

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mistresswhat · 2022-04-27T20:22:54+00:00

Compatibility which Redditors love to mention essentially just boils down to 'does the guy have a big dick'

That's not what anyone means when they say "compatibility" and you know it.

I've had good sex with guys who were pretty small -- they all went down on me a lot. In general women who prioritize oral don't care as much. The woman who wrote that post does not enjoy receiving oral sex, so it kinda makes sense that she's more of a size queen.

daisydaisydaisy12 · 2022-04-27T19:30:44+00:00

Yes it is a sad truth. Your best bet is to be so great in other areas that you make up for it. And yes it is very possible.

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-04-27T21:09:18+00:00

bad luck. not everyone can have everything. some people are below average looking, some people have low iq, other people have a small pipe. accept it and move on

Nut_Cutlet · 2022-04-27T21:24:07+00:00

I doubt it would matter if you have a small dick if you're good at making people climax. Yes some women must have PIV to feel good but that's a minority of women. It does take time to get good

TheMorningJoe · 2022-04-27T22:48:31+00:00

It definitely lowers self esteem that’s for sure, short dudes never win lol

Complex-Glass-8539 · 2022-04-27T20:55:48+00:00

Like, it sucks, but sadly, them’s the breaks. I can almost guarantee that dude wasn’t packing average if she said it was 3” and she couldn’t feel anything when she’s the type to only get off from PIV.

If you got a micro, it’s a disability, and that’s how it needs to be looked at. It’s something that needs to be overcome and takes a partner that is understanding, patient and willing to do things differently to accommodate without any feelings of their partner being less than. Basically, it takes a special person.

Yeah, you aren’t going to be fuckboy supreme rocking a 3”er with a bunch of girls wanting to get on it….but you can still have relationships and satisfy your partner in the ways you can, and with the right partner it could be just as good as with anyone else.

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IndifferentImp · 2022-04-28T00:14:23+00:00

guy is only as good as his worst trait

That seems like a pretty good metric biologically speaking.

EntertainerUseful408 · 2022-04-27T21:03:04+00:00

I'm a lesbian and I have made a woman cum every single time I've had sex. Men complaining that their dick is small and therefore they can't satisfy a woman is just about the most ridiculous excuse. If anything, it's just a way to cope with their overall sexual incompetence.

baresquad · 2022-04-27T19:44:44+00:00

Things are gonna get so much easier when we all come to terms with the fact that people have preferences their entitled to and that not every one of those preferences meet porn expectations

Dick size culture is only a thing because of size queens and men who are obsessed with dick size, which admittedly makes sense, we’ve all been teens and through puberty before, this is the type of shit that shape our insecurities and shit

But I guess you would hope that once we all mature past a certain age that high school level maturity topics wouldn’t mean as much but here we are

Believe me though, I am sympathetic dysmorphia is a motherfucker, I’ve struggled with it all up until a few years ago

But all this dick size discourse is just pointless, women really don’t care unless they do and you’ll know if they do.

asshole67throw · 2022-04-27T21:01:53+00:00

Tbh man own it. Learn to give good oral (hopefully you enjoy this) and if you do get a girl back to yours - just be honest and say: yeah I know I’ve got a small cock but here an 8 inch strapon a give her the time of her life, pound away without worrying about coming prematurely and then get her to finish you off. It’s honestly not the end of the world. You can also get sex toys/dildos/strapons that you wear that will increase your length similar to condoms.

Believe it or not; honestly with some women, being too big (above 7 inches) can be uncomfortable. Imagine you were taking that in the ass, you wouldn’t be able to do it comfortably without a lot of warm up.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2022-04-27T20:12:33+00:00

Become masters of foreplay.

Luisd858 · 2022-04-27T22:06:19+00:00

Yeah in todays media it’s so toxic. Big dick this big dick energy that, porn 8-10 inches, girls wanting or thinking they want 8-10 like damn whatever happened to having sex for the fun and connection of it?

2022-04-27T20:48:16+00:00

‘Infecting peoples minds’… if it’s so small she can’t feel it/it doesn’t even go in then you can’t expect her to pretend to like it?

briiiana1122 · 2022-04-27T21:00:04+00:00

There are for sure women who are size queen types. There are lots who aren’t. Comparability being just seen a dick size is honestly lazy. Because of men assuming their big penis automatically makes them good in bed, there are actually plenty of women who much prefer average sized men who actually give a fuck and enjoy sex for more than just P in V humping. I’m one.

You can compensate for size with a lot of other things, one of them being just enjoying the whole rest of sex like foreplay. If you see foreplay as a chore and all the non P in V parts as just something to get though, you probably are not going to be called “comparable” or “good” regardless of size.

Aiizimor · 2022-04-27T21:00:20+00:00

Advice from a very talented pua I know. Say its small regardless of the size. If it is small, she cant complain without looking like a fool because you said it was. If it's not small, it's a bonus

CodSubstantial9358 · 2022-04-27T21:50:09+00:00

There's nothing you can do, just hope she doesn't mind. If she does, find a woman who doesn't... Which means you'll have to find out the hard way.

This idea that you can make up for having a small dick is total nonsense. It's a detriment. Just like being ugly, or being broke etc.

tropicsGold · 2022-04-28T01:03:44+00:00

All of the feelings and insecurities embedded in this post come from the same place, porn. Porn has done GREAT damage to our society.

I have over 50 years of relationship experience, and more than 30 sexual, and it predates all of the modern porn. You need to unlearn ALL of what it teaches.

Are there a certain number of women who get off on large cocks, yes, but the huge majority don’t care. Many even prefer smaller, because women vary in size too. Large cocks can actually be a huge problem because if you don’t fit it really sucks for both parties.

Same with rough play, domination, anal, all the other shit that is so popular in porn. Yes some like it, the majority don’t. I can’t give percentages, but I would bet money that the majority of women would prefer sex more gentle than most men now prefer due to porn teachings.

Anal used to be a very small niche that very few women wanted or would tolerate, and with good reason, it is very unpleasant unless you really dig pain, and it can cause some serious health problems. But porn teaches men that woman love to brutally throw down and sodomized, and women often go along because they feel pressured. It’s fine if you are both into it, but I would bet that most relationships would vastly improve if this option were not pushed.

Seriously people, absolutely IGNORE all of the shit that porn is teaching you.

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-04-28T01:52:10+00:00

Workout, don't neg, get really good at eating pussy and ass

Kaisha001 · 2022-04-28T06:09:43+00:00

Marry an asian. Learn to use fingers/mouth better.

BigDudBoy · 2022-04-28T08:22:26+00:00

There is nothing they can do except hope the girl they have sex with doesn't mind. Obviously being good at oral and fingering is a given, every guy should do that regardless. The truth is, your partner reflects your own worth. With common phrases and rhetoric (supported by women) about how great big dicks are, having a BF who has a small dick makes the woman feel lower status.

That's one of the reasons height is so important. Having a tall BF is a status symbol and makes the woman look better.

GrimeyDaGoon · 2022-04-28T10:07:20+00:00

Your problem will not be taken seriously and will only be belittled, demeaned, and mocked on Reddit and in life. This has been what I’ve seen.

enbaelien · 2022-04-28T11:57:59+00:00

I really hope this girl has a son and he goes through self-image issues so that she can see what this type of thing does to people.

You want a kid to suffer through self-image issues to prove a point to some random woman? Yeah, you're an asshole, dude.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-04-27T20:01:21+00:00

Women pretty much never underestimate penis size, they often overestimate though especially due to men who exaggerate their own size. A micropenis is unfortunate for both partners, although fortunately they are rare, but you can always do other activities or get an extending toy. Compatibility I'd much more than penis size, frankly so long as it's small enough to fit and big enough to be felt it's the least of your concern even sexually. You mentioned domination which has nothing to do with penis size, but which kinks the two of you have and how good you are at them. (If I can dominate without a dick, I don't think that's what's causing the problem.)

TemporalCash531 · 2022-04-27T20:26:02+00:00

If you’re dating someone who’s concerned with your dick size, you’re simply dating the wrong person.

If you’re concerned with your dick size for dating, you’re not dating, you’re looking for intercourse. In that case I strongly invite a change in strategy and go see a professional sex worker.

Harambe-2036 · 2022-04-27T22:15:34+00:00

Then you could look into ways to make it work, like penis sleeves.

Imagine a bunch of guys saying you should have your girl wear fake boobs because you don't like how hers are too small.

Im_The_Daiquiri_Man · 2022-04-28T00:52:34+00:00

As a guy who by no means has a big dick, there is such a thing as “adequate.” And the vast majority of guys are.

It’s like with looks.

Model looking Chad dudes can get laid at will because there are enough women, maybe even most, who will give it up to them just because their looks gives them tingles.

But many of those women would not DQ every guy that “isn’t Chad” and may reject Chad for a less Chadly (but still acceptable) with better game and style. It happens.

With size it’s similar. There are most definitely “size queens” that will literally fuck a guy based on his bulge. I lived with a few roommates in my 20’s and one of them was such a guy. We called him “Dirk Diggler” for fucksake.

There were several times where he’d bang strippers, club chicks, etc just from his dick. He was a good looking guy otherwise, but he literally had no personality.

I’ve had another friend with a big dick where word got around among a group of girls. They all fucked that dude.

However, I’ve also had women repeatedly cheat on said big dick dude with me.

Bottom line: Big Dick comes with privileges, like being able to bang size queens and women who just want to “try you out” (yes many women do this)

But, this is a far cry from a girl fucking an average guy, getting off and then just ghosting him because his dick isn’t big enough.

That has got to be very rare and likely means you just encountered a rare size queen rather than your normal everyday chick.

wtknight · 2022-04-27T19:46:10+00:00

Some women have small vaginas. A guy with a small penis just has to put in some work to find one, I guess.

OneComfortable3508 · 2022-04-27T20:40:51+00:00

Until you have more than one example of small dick being the problem in your relationship, I’d slow your roll. I certainly wouldn’t be searching for societal examples of problems that didn’t happen to you or taking on the worry of cases that you’ve merely heard of. Get good at other things, and learn how to elicit feelings in a woman. Don’t dare combine boring with the size thing.

Thucydides00 · 2022-04-27T23:13:06+00:00

in this thread she says '3 inches' but I bet he's average or just slightly below.

Apart from anything else, this baseline assumption that because it's a woman saying this, she's lying or couldn't possibly be correct, is so telling of the world-view of so many guys on here.

Also three inches erect is pretty small, thats well below the statistical average, just like how seven inches and up is far above it, and ten inches and up is so rare that it's basically a statistical anomaly. There simply aren't that many huge dicks out there for it to be a real life choice dilemma that makes or breaks your chances, unless they're obsessed with size.

If you're quite a bit smaller than average and also bad at sex then of course they're not going to love it or even want it. And yes there is a desire for huge dicks amongst women, they'll prefer them, but it's not a dealbreaker, simply because there's hardly any guys swinging enormous hammers on the earth.

daddysgotanew · 2022-04-27T20:41:56+00:00

I’m 7” and have been called “dead average” a couple times so a lot of women have seen a 9 at least once. Lot of huge ones out there and they get around…

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-04-27T20:02:14+00:00

Id say this if you can't do doggy style without falling out constantly on the back stroke especially if putting any space between you and your partner , she's not showing enthusiasm , then ya you probably got you a small one , and it's going to hinder you sexually. Better start learning other skills. Oral, toys, etc.

extrachromozomes · 2022-04-27T21:03:18+00:00

I only like PIV sex so I wouldn’t date a man with a super small penis

John_Oakman · 2022-04-27T21:52:02+00:00

Find post menopause, post epiphany phase women then, as they tend to care less for shallow physical pursuits and accept people for their deeper values...

... or perhaps those men/males don't want to admit that they're equally shallow when it comes to seeking relationships?

Flashy_Ad3890 · 2022-04-27T21:53:18+00:00

I have had both large and average sized penises. I much prefer average size. When a penis can fit completely inside though the man groin stimulates the clitoris leading to a better orgasm. I never actually orgasmed with the larger penis actually.

Reisiluu · 2022-04-27T22:58:09+00:00

Small dick guys could figure out which weird fetishes they are ok with and find a woman who is into something like that. Maybe she won't mind the small dick if he puts on a dog mask and does what she wants.

BayleShira · 2022-04-27T23:03:58+00:00

There's no evidence here of any of the things you are claiming.
The best I can gather is that she is having casual sex with a guy and she is not enjoying that sex. And the general response seems to be that if she is not enjoying these sexual encounters, she isn't obligated to continue.

Somehow from that, you have projected that:
His penis size is his worst trait (your words, not hers)
Girls leave handsome men over their dick size (again, completely unfounded)
The man in question has a dick larger than she says (completely unfounded)
Girls think compatibility means a "big dick" (again, no basis for this at all)
Most girls [...] like the feeling of domination (Uh... what?)
Small dick just doesn't cut it (That is your projection based off of one reddit post..?)

I can understand a man with a "small" penis or what he perceives to be a small penis immediately projecting his insecurities into this situation - that makes total sense. The problem is that your projections don't equate to proof of something or evidence of something.

I can't in good conscience say the girl in the original post is wrong or invalid; in casual encounters, she has every right to aim for a specific goal. I can't say how I would react in her position. All I can say is that if she were my close friend divulging this to me, I would probably say that it sucks that she's not into oral and her clit doesn't work. To be honest, I thought the post seemed kind of silly to begin with because I have yet to hear any girl say they don't have clitoral orgasms when afforded the opportunity, but they have orgasms other ways. That is a new one to me, but I guess anything is possible.

That brings up the point, however, that men are the ones thinking women are after a "big dick."
We're not. Women's biology is designed to orgasm through clitoral stimulation. The size of the penis absolutely does not factor into that at all.

TheCupGuySparty · 2022-04-27T19:34:56+00:00

It’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean!

ClaraBow01 · 2022-04-28T01:49:09+00:00

In reality, penis size does not matter to most women. Small penis jokes are more so used to mock people who overcompensate for their masculinity. It’s more metaphorical than literal.

Rushbyb · 2022-04-27T20:00:25+00:00

Some women can't fit 8 or 9inch in their equipment. Become good at oral or bring toys into the bedroom.

SolidTunnelSnake · 2022-04-27T21:50:36+00:00

If there’s nothing you can do to improve your sexual quality to a point that meets the standards of the women/men your interested in, then give up and embrace celibacy. Nothing in this life is guaranteed. Your mistake was being born the wrong way.

Smitten_Squire · 2022-04-27T21:57:47+00:00

It is what it is. You can't talk ur way of of it. Its just like if ur bald... Ur bald. If ur short... Ur short. Just as if ur 3 inches... Ur 3 inches.

The women notice those things.

They matter

mrmoneytrain · 2022-04-27T22:14:29+00:00

Get a hydro pump and the lengthening shit. Or just have a small dick

mumblebumblegrumble · 2022-04-27T22:29:00+00:00

The worst sex I had was with my ex that had the biggest penis.

CatchPhraze · 2022-04-27T23:23:06+00:00

" but I bet he's average or just slightly below" Why? Why pull a conjecture out of your ass, about a single person then base an entire concept of womankind around it?

That's insane. The fact that PIV is a relatively unimportant part of good sex for woman won't matter to you because you've already decided to fabricate a narrative. Anything that goes against it will be dismissed.

I don't think guys with small dicks besides literal micropenisis have a problem. I think guys who get wound up in a circle logic drain that spirals them into rejective reality and fabrication need to do something.

Desert_butterfries · 2022-04-27T23:57:57+00:00

Some women will not give a damn. I was head over heels for this one guy with a teeny tiny weiner, I mean he had gorgeous features, but he didn't want a relationship. I was chasing after him hoping he would. We hooked up, I saw no issue with his weenie because again, I thought he was gorgeous, but he didn't want to try to get to know me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If a woman comes your way I think you ought to be grateful.. because you may be single for a while.

JustNefariousness625 · 2022-04-28T00:41:01+00:00

Big dick energy 😂

AquaChip · 2022-04-28T12:23:19+00:00

3 inches is a deal breaker though.. I’m not going to sugar coat it. I need PIV sex. Head is great but if head is the only thing I’m getting because you’re too small then it’s not going to cut it.

Wonderful-Farmer-763 · 2022-04-27T21:59:45+00:00

Sry I like big dicks

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Bandit174 · 2022-04-27T20:51:35+00:00

If you're really small it could be worth pursuing surgery.

scwizard · 2022-04-27T21:41:30+00:00

I don't think someone changing their mind about sex after clothes come off cause of size really happens.

She might not want a second date, but if so fuck her, do you really wanna have a long term thing with a size queen?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-27T23:07:27+00:00

This cultural thing about big dicks is infecting people's minds at this point. Girls can leave good handsome guys because the dick isn't big enough,

Sure but is it not reasonable to expect a really strong amount of sexual pleasure in a LTR?

Some women have loose vaginas or are big girls and can't fit a small one because of their ass or whatever.. regardless , it's important for them to actually get rid of the small dicked guy asap so that it doesn't make it worse for both parties.

It is a mindset to a point but the fact remains its a physical sensation first and foremost.

That said most average guys are fine. It's people like in your link (3in) that are fucked

Lateralanouncer · 2022-04-27T23:17:46+00:00

The pua max tornow used to talk about this. Basicly worring about it is small dick energy.

Severe-Pirate · 2022-04-28T00:23:15+00:00

Unfortunately, there’s nothing a guy who’s small below the belt can do to change his situation. My honest advice for guy dealing with this issue would be to focus and himself and try to improve other areas of life besides sex and dating.

Downtown_Show8242 · 2022-04-28T01:45:07+00:00

I'm 4 inches soft and 6.5 hard, never got any complaints, maybe a backstabbing here and there but not directly.

mil2357io · 2022-04-28T02:10:36+00:00

So, I may be wrong about this, but, I am pretty sure it is a penis to vagina situation: some women got loose goose vagina, some guys got itsy bitsy spider dick. Best case scenario, you find what suits you. Play around, though. Stick a couple fingers up in there with yur cock, play with your bitt hole you fuck, stick yur fingers wherever...

mil2357io · 2022-04-28T02:11:12+00:00

So, I may be wrong about this, but, I am pretty sure it is a penis to vagina situation: some women got loose goose vagina, some guys got itsy bitsy spider dick. Best case scenario, you find what suits you. Play around, though. Stick a couple fingers up in there with yur cock, play with your bitt hole you fuck, stick yur fingers wherever...

mil2357io · 2022-04-28T02:11:16+00:00

So, I may be wrong about this, but, I am pretty sure it is a penis to vagina situation: some women got loose goose vagina, some guys got itsy bitsy spider dick. Best case scenario, you find what suits you. Play around, though. Stick a couple fingers up in there with yur cock, play with your bitt hole you fuck, stick yur fingers wherever...

mil2357io · 2022-04-28T03:09:01+00:00

So, I may be wrong about this, but, I am pretty sure it is a penis to vagina situation: some women got loose goose vagina, some guys got itsy bitsy spider dick. Best case scenario, you find what suits you. Play around, though. Stick a couple fingers up in there with yur cock, play with your bitt hole you fuck, stick yur fingers wherever...

VeliVoy · 2022-04-28T03:17:11+00:00

How small are we talking here

KaleidoscopeEyes12 · 2022-04-28T03:21:44+00:00

Talk about jumping to conclusions lol. You don’t know how big/small he was. Also, they did NOT say “does he have a big dick? if so, that’s compatible. if not, that’s incompatible”. They said if she’s not having a good time, they are sexually incompatible, and they should see other people. There’s nothing wrong with either one of them. Some people like bigger dicks, some people like smaller dicks.

She’s not being a bitch or anything. She would be if she told him “I don’t want to do this anymore because you have a small dick and small dicks are useless”, but she didn’t say that, nor is that the point she’s trying to make in the post.

Smithersink · 2022-04-28T04:23:12+00:00

Dude, every girl I’ve ever asked has said it’s pretty much purely about technique and that they don’t care about penis size. Yes, a really small penis is gonna be less satisfying, but I guarantee you that this idea of all women being obsessed with huge cocks is a myth. You just gotta find someone who’s into the stuff you’re into, practice your technique, and ask her what she likes. If you’ve found the right girl and you’re using it right, size should almost never be an issue. If if it’s like 2 inches and it’s really a problem for her, I’m pretty sure you can get cock surgery or something.

HuntressAndGoat · 2022-04-28T04:36:34+00:00

First of all I'm 44 years old and I've had sex with multiple different partners of varying size they literally just broke up with a very attractive young black man with a massive penis because he refused to give me any amount of adequate for play he literally pushed my hand away from my own clitoris so he could take a picture of his penis going inside my vagina. Now here's the thing most guys with big dicks if they're not good lovers are lazy and they equate their entire worth with a penis size and that I find is completely and utterly disgusting it's like a woman saying there for because I have vagina I shouldn't have to do anything but look pretty and open my legs it's disgusting. Now here's the thing I myself and the type of person that if given the amount of time I will look and touch and caress and suck and nibble and just completely and totally sucks last make love to another human being 4 hours me myself I just need to be played with for 3 to 10 minutes so I can have my climax so that for the next week and a half every single cell in my body doesn't ache and cry and SOB from depression and actual physical pain. Here's the thing I dated this one guy in college in 2012 Late Bloomer College wise anyway he had what amounted to the size of maybe two fingers length and width not very big very good kisser over the period of several years I might have had an orgasm with him once but he did the same thing I don't understand how me a five foot eleven and a half 200 on average 40 lb woman on 270 right now can moan two or three times because her vagina is being touched for 20 to 40 seconds and then all of a sudden this egotistical man thinks he's the goddess lover like I am only because I've been told by virtually every man I've ever had sex with that I'm the best holes ever and an end I think it's the most depressing thing in the whole world to hear because here's the problem every single long-term live-in relationship I've ever had the man withhold sex from me! Why? Is it because I'm such a good lover quote that they feel inadequate that they can't even offer me a full 60 Minutes of touching my vagina and nice and kind and soft when I push they pull back when I pull back they push I mean it's like the level of an aptitude that I received is beyond comprehension because literally all you have to do is pay attention I told my nesting partner cuz we're poly open I said I need you to care about me having a climax with you I would like to experience that with you again. He goes why I've been asking you for a while now to teach me I said it's not a left left right right up up down left right right right left right right left up down... A a b b c no it's not a remote control I've told you exactly what I need I need the energy of as if you have all the time in the world to play with me and that the only thing you want to experience is giving me pleasure in seeing me rise in lovely beautiful pleasure climax and literally it will take less than 3 to 5 minutes tops 7 because if I feel like you want to experience my climax that's going to make me come really fast but if I feel like you don't care about me enjoying myself you just want to stick your penis inside me and get off as quick as possible when I haven't had sex with you in 3 to 8 months no why are you withholding sex from me why I would give you a b****** every Monday and that was too much

Willow-girl · 2022-04-28T04:49:33+00:00

What do small penis guys do?

They tell the joke about the dude with a small dick who was getting with a woman for the first time. Seeing his undersized member, she scoffed, "Who do you think you're going to please with THAT thing?"

"ME!"

jmooremcc · 2022-04-28T05:03:06+00:00

If lesbians can give each other massive orgasms without a dick, why not borrow a page or two from their playbook. With that knowledge and your dick, just imagine all the pleasure you'd be able to give a woman. It's all about attitude and skill in the bedroom - not dick size.

Lonely_23_1997 · 2022-04-28T09:49:30+00:00

You can get better at oral if your partner isn’t enjoying things due to size, you can also introduce toys. If they’re making you feel really bad about your size though breaking things off may be better. Everyone has their preferences and sometimes you won’t be a fit for a person you like because of that.

The_Entertainer217 · 2022-04-28T10:00:00+00:00

I’ll be real with you here, I find most women really don’t care one way or the other about dick size. Good sex has a lot more to do with the whole body.

PredatoryLynx · 2022-04-28T10:30:42+00:00

Use toys too

aslanhatessmeagol · 2022-04-28T10:53:39+00:00

I love small dicks!

WillfulGrapefruit · 2022-04-28T15:35:41+00:00

Have the straights not heard of fisting yet?

In all seriousness, "what do small penis guys do?". They have a more extensive sexual repertoire.

Title	What do small penis guys do?
Author	Freelovehighway
Upvotes	44
Comments	367
Date	April 27, 2022 7:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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