if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-11-05T02:49:52+00:00

I don't know what this is, but I'm pretty sure it's breaking some rule or another.

1tsalwaysliketh1s · 2022-11-05T02:12:02+00:00

Why yall want a virgin gf but negatively obsess over being virgin men

Issamelissa84 · 2022-11-05T01:46:04+00:00

I could give exactly zero shits if a guy is a virgin. Not a single flying fuck. Most. Women. Do. Not. Care. About. This.

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rickjames334 · 2022-11-05T01:23:40+00:00

Well first of all I’d stay a little optimistic if I were you, since I know it’s a hard situation to be in, especially as a man. You’re right, not every girl is open to teach. At the same time, not every girl isn’t open to teach too. Also plenty of women mid 20-s that haven’t had sex either so maybe you guys can learn each other’s bodies together. I lost mine not long ago and “teaching” isn’t really too much of the process as it’s something you’ll get better at the more you do it. There will probably be some but it won’t take away from the experience altogether.

Some virgin girls don’t want virgin guys

Gonna be honest, a lot of virgins aren’t really too picky lol and everyone is different. I doubt it’ll go this way. Plus, some women may like it

no girl accepted you

Well put yourself out there more and more until one does. Do some self observation too to make sure any reason it might not have went well doesn’t drag into your next relationship. I’m sure you’ll get there. Just keep your head up and keep trying. I’d recommend you get someone very patient and understanding so when the time comes it’ll be good for both of you

DaddysCavern · 2022-11-05T01:31:50+00:00

Focus on a career..

SmilesLikeMardiGras · 2022-11-05T01:36:13+00:00

read the red pill and learn game after looksmaxxing. duh

Coom_woom · 2022-11-05T01:43:30+00:00

Wait what's wrong with being a virgin? I wouldn't judge you for it

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-11-05T02:10:30+00:00

I wouldn’t make my virginity the hallmark of my personality and who I am as a person. I would make some friends, build a social circle, have a lot of fun, and if I meet the right person, shoot my shot with her.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-11-05T02:17:46+00:00

Do what my BF did I guess.

Focus on life, hobbies, family, faith, decide to work on my confidence by small talking with strangers, hey that girl's pretty cute, is she looking at Tolkien...Okay, what's the harm in talking to her?...Wait, she actually looks like she's enjoying this? She's laughing and smiling? She said she hopes she sees me here again? Does it have to be here specifically? Should I ask for her contact info or something?

Novadina · 2022-11-05T02:28:33+00:00

I’m confused because this is flaired Question for Women, but then you say this:

And let’s say you have social skills and you are possible but for some reason no girl accepted you from ages 18 to 25.

Which seems like you are asking men? But you seem to be a man, and men can’t ask Q4M questions here… so I’m not sure…

Are you asking men or women?

If it really is Q4W my answer is I wouldn’t do anything specific, I’d just keep dating until I found a partner. I wouldn’t volunteer then information that I was a virgin either if that had a stigma. It’s not really something people need to know on a first date anyway.

Lone-Ranger1775 · 2022-11-05T02:31:51+00:00

I’m 42 and still a virgin

Upstairs-Rip-604 · 2022-11-05T02:34:13+00:00

I’d keep doing what I’m doing. I’m a 20 year old virgin woman.

Financial_Leave4411 · 2022-11-05T02:44:12+00:00

I lived that life as a woman and I can say I wouldn’t have minded a man who was also like me who also wanted marriage. I wouldn’t have cared that he didn’t have experience provided he was looking to settle down and not looking for casual sex/ a teacher. So I would advise a man like that to look for a cute but not hot normal girl to marry asap rather than a hookup. The longer he waits the more desperate he will probably become and there will be fewer good women who would be accepting of him available to settle down with as most of the good girls find a husband young. If he is looking for casual he will probably need to bite the bullet and pay for a few hookers to get experience while working on his looks etc. to attract the bad girls. He should know however that if he chooses the casual bad girl path most good girls will give up on him forever so he needs to decide what he wants in life before picking either path.

Hopeful_Choice_1144 · 2022-11-05T02:50:15+00:00

I would shower 13 hours a day, read 3 quadrillion self-help books, hit on every female in a 100 mile radius, become a bazillionaire, become an Avenger, collect the infinity stones, and defeat Thanos.

Title	if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you do
Author	ApplesauceThegod
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Comments	48
Date	November 5, 2022 1:12 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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