q4w: does it take a strong woman to turn down sex with a man she doesnt want to marry, or, a weak woman accepts sex with men she doesnt want to marry?

EulenWatcher · 2022-11-08T14:11:02+00:00

Depends entirely on her values and whether she sees it as a temptation.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-11-08T14:01:35+00:00

It’s nothing to do with being weak or strong

RStonePT · 2022-11-08T14:26:12+00:00

strong and weak are just 'I want these things to be valued' without any articulation of why

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-11-08T14:23:10+00:00

a lot of women dont even see something wrong with it so they don't believe in your measure of strength in the first place but i would argue that being sexually unrestrained correlates with slippery morals

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-11-08T15:17:16+00:00

Both. There are men I find attractive but I turn them down unless they commit. Also, why only get half the deal. Enough men I want equally that would commit, often those men are even more attractive. But sleeping around is often correlated to impulse control.

But sometimes it is a choice. ”I want to see if he is serious”, ”I need to focus on my own stuff, and want sex but don’t want to get attached” etc.

EviessVeralan · 2022-11-08T13:58:49+00:00

I would argue that its not a matter of whether she is weak or strong but a matter of if shes making an intelligent or unintelligent decision.

LiftSushiDallas · 2022-11-10T03:47:27+00:00

Your question has built in premises that aren't true for everyone. For example, many of us don't see having sex with a man we don't want to marry as immoral or wrong at all; therefore, it isn't "weakness" that has us do that but simply our desire to do so.

And no, it doesn't take strength to turn down sex with a man we don't want to marry since we aren't linking sex and marriage. You are.

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