More women try to manipulate men into relationships using sex, rather than men promising relationships to manipulate women into sex

jellybeanzandtings · 2022-11-17T16:02:14+00:00

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northernlights190 · 2022-11-17T15:45:42+00:00

Having sex with someone because you are attracted to them and want to have sex with them, hoping or believing it might lead to a relationship, isn’t “manipulating.” You’re into a guy, you sleep together, the relationship doesn’t go where you were initially hoping on his end or yours or both. That’s just life sometimes, it’s not a scheming trick women are playing.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-17T15:48:34+00:00

Yes I remember those manipulative women shaking their rumps going “Doggie style means you are my boyfriend!” And the next thing I knew we were at Pottery Barn every Saturday after breakfast sex! Those tricksters!

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-17T15:39:31+00:00

Nah, not remotely true imo.

Just about every girl I know has been pumped and dumped, and it was certainly not exclusively done by "chads". I only know one guy who transitioned from just exclusively casual sex to a relationship.

NakedStreets · 2022-11-17T15:48:41+00:00

Explain how you can tell the difference between a woman just dating a high value man (as people generally do when they’re considering or looking for a relationship), and a woman trying to use sex to manipulate a high value man into a relationship.

Because to me it just sounds like you don’t understand what dating is.

2022-11-17T15:47:06+00:00

I disagree because relationship is an abstract concept . It’s not something you feel. Promising a relationship are just words. What women look for is feeling the love of a man wanting her and no one else.

So women do not use sex to obtain a relationship , they can use it to influence certain feelings in a man. Additionally in my experience women also use unprotected sex earlier in dating to influence more love and attachment from a man.

But the reverse you mention is not true. A man cannot use the prospect of a relationship to get sex. Because a relationship does not mean anything , it’s the feelings that go with it.

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-11-17T15:37:15+00:00

How can women have the upper hand in dating and be trying to manipulate men into relationships at the same time? These are mutually exclusive. If they had the upper hand they wouldn't have to manipulate anyone. Or are you telling me the real reason women have public hair is to hide the hook?

januaryphilosopher · 2022-11-17T15:49:38+00:00

Put it this way, the average woman wants an actual relationship with an average man more than he wants one with her. If men wanted relationships, manipulation or anything else wouldn't be needed.

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Title	More women try to manipulate men into relationships using sex, rather than men promising relationships to manipulate women into sex
Author	feanoric
Upvotes	3
Comments	42
Date	November 17, 2022 3:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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