Men, if you are going into a contested divorce, especially if there are false domestic violence or abuse allegations, you must watch this. Deposition.

And I mean watch the first two hours. Sit and watch, don't fast forward and skip around. You must watch it unfold, right from question one. Watch every question for the first 1.5 hours, so you can see exactly how the bullshit allegations come, how the false pedophilia allegations unfurl.

But there is much more. The entire thing is atrocious -- and I've only linked part 1 of 4. Right from the jump, it's false allegation after false allegation -- including whether the father is lying about his income, whether he has "unsafe" furniture with "corners," to whether he had "padlocks" on gates, to the size of the mattresses the children will sleep on and whether that is "appropriate." It is bullshit, piled on bullshit, piled on bullshit.

You will see a decent guy, a decent father, having to sit and take significant abuse from a grossly dishonest divorce lawyer retained by the ex-wife. It goes on for hours, and hours, and hours, and of course both sides are spending a fuckton of money for this travesty. The calm, the poise, of this man and father is nothing short of miraculous. Miraculous.

And I am telling you to watch this, because this is what you may be up against in a vigorously contested divorce. This is what you may face in a nasty divorce with false allegations of abuse or violence.

So you must watch it. This is exactly, precisely how dishonest family/divorce lawyers will try to conjure, and bolster, blatantly false allegations against you -- costing both you and the ex tens of thousands --- hundreds of thousands -- of dollars/euros/francs in the process. And I think the gentleman answering questions provides an excellent guide on how to respond -- calmly, succinctly, professionally. Few could do a better job.

Watch, listen, absorb, learn. This is a tailor-made training video, it really is. This could be you. If you are facing or just starting the divorce process, invest the 1.5 hours, trust me. Trust the men who have posted here. This is the reality, the truth, of divorce, laid bare.