It's always good to read a Salon Feminist tell us what the real boy's crisis is. (Teaching boys not to be girly).

The real boys crisis is not what happens in school, not what happens on the way to college, and not what happens in college, but the real boys crisis is their clothing is rigid, their hairstyles are rigid, their toys are not gender fluid, and none of their stories have female protagonists.

Thank you Salon

http://www.salon.com/2013/09/25/5_ways_america_tells_boys_not_to_be_girly/

(edit: fixed redundancy in text.)