Everything feels like transactional value, what we bring to the table. Let me explain.

lieutenantdong · 2023-02-09T22:33:06+00:00

In the context of men, we live in a heirachal structure. It's in our nature to compete and overtake the next man. It's biological.

Why....pussy. Pussy is worth more than dick. Dick means fuck all to women.

In the context of women, they know their pussy is what they have to offer.

Our competitive rewards are pussy to women. Ie status.

We want pussy. Women want status. Why do we get hung up on that exchange? Because it's harder for men. Women are born, men are made.

If im in a bar and approach pussy, im a creep. If i approach with earned status, i become equal and get the opportunity to talk/seduce. Yeah it sucks.

Lets flip the script. If men have an infinite pocket full of status/money, all women will wanna fuck us. If women approach us, we'd know they want our status/money. Thats a womans life having a pussy.

Dont be miserable for that, just understand the equation and do the work.

The only annoyance is if we had infinite status/money we have more to offer than our status/money. Women have that value and offer fuck all else and still ask what can you do for me. Thats where the resentment lies. Zero effort on their part other than their pussy.

If a girl has something to offer other than pussy, then thats rare and they deserve more effort because we'd expect the same.

revente · 2023-02-09T01:19:48+00:00

unfortunately that's the transactional world that we live in

What’s unfortunate about it? This is amazing!

The more work you put in the better results you get. And the path to improvement has been precisely mapped out for you. No guesswork involved!

Weak physique? Start lifting, here’s a proven program by someone knowledgeable.

Need more money? Here’s a subreddit dedicated to well paying online skills.

Lacking social skills -here’s a book on this exact matter.

Etc.

And who are you kidding -you too are attracted to certain people because of what they bring to the table. Stacey looks cute. Josh is funny. Mark invites you to the best parties. Paul is worse than you at everything, which makes you feel much better about yourself. Etc.

2023-02-09T13:16:40+00:00

You wouldn't give a time a day to a fat ugly chick that has nothing to offer you either, right?

There's so many men out there, most of them are pretty much the same - losers who half-ass everything in life and are looking for a mommy to take care of them emotionally and maybe physically. And for some reason women are supposed to pick that one specific loser between all of those (you) and love him unconditionally?

fftsteven · 2023-02-09T00:50:50+00:00

I have to step on other people to win.

Think this is wrong. I don't believe it's a zero-sum game, nor is that the most optimal way to play the game.

BlocknGhost · 2023-02-10T14:12:33+00:00

Humans are social beings, and our fulfillment comes from being valued and useful to others and the group.

By not learning a skill or trade that provides value to the economy, not staying in shape, and not socializing with and encouraging others, you’re neglecting the gifts and opportunities you’ve been blessed with in exchange for a false sense of comfort.

This philosophy is utilitarian. I seek to improve my skills and physique because I want to be valued by others and share the wealth with them when we all win together. If I were to consume more than I produced, I’d be a net negative on society from an economic standpoint.

Siddyf · 2023-02-09T21:38:54+00:00

All relationships are transactional, but we have allowed a panty twisting ideology to discard/diminish this in favor of feelz before reelz.

ArkNemesis00 · 2023-02-09T22:34:59+00:00

Yeah, I do think there's a huge component of relationships that is transactional.

My spouse and I provide a considerable amount of value to each other - we lighten each other's load and can achieve more efficiently. It's attractive, there's no getting around that.

But we do genuinely enjoy each other's company. Similar senses of humor, similar hobbies, similar desires to hang out with each other and touch each other and what not. We enjoy discussing our thoughts and ideas and hearing what the other has to say about it.

It's complicated. Would we lose attraction to each other if we suddenly and permanently started providing less value? Probably. But would either one of us cash in the other for a robot that was guaranteed to produce the same amount of value for life? No. No way. There's more than just what we bring to the table, as important as that is.

oooKenshiooo · 2023-02-10T19:32:48+00:00

You don't have to step on other people. There is such thing as a win-win interaction.

Regards, A successful person.

Distinct_Week7437 · 2023-03-05T09:54:59+00:00

Everything you do is different forms of currency in women’s eyes. Some things cost more to them than others. Act accordingly

GideonZotero · 2023-03-05T11:04:32+00:00

I find that people that think looks, status or money is some sort of cheat don't have them.

They improve your odds, they don't get you the championship. They don't even get you the win most times unless the girl hunts you down and gets you to beg for it. Think of it in terms of Benfica vs PSG. You can be PSG, get the banger and still stay just as a domestic powerhouse - because you are a one trick ponny. You smash your easy wins and flounder at the slightest hesitance, push back and god forbid you have to tackle a competitive woman that will match for match your with, social acumen or charm. Now, not saying Benfica can compete - but they actually made money of playing the transfer market and are a great team to play with. There will be no stories written about PSG even if they win the UCL. But if Benfica does - damn, that's one hell of a run.

Similarly - your brain is wrong for even daring to think the world is anything but transactional. You do not hang out with the fat girl, you don't offer to eat her drench unshaved pussy and you don't cuddle her afterwards. Your value is not traded motherfucker. Your value is the minimum expectation that you offer society and people around you in order to not be a draining selfish prick that expects things from others - but doesn't bring anything to the table. You need to be that much of a socialized human person to play the game. It's not something you lose, not something that is taken from you, it's just something basic like wearing pants in public and not shitting on the ground. The only reason you find it hard is because you are a child that did not get any rolemodels and / or never gotten his arse wooped the second he said: Nah adult people, I won't do my chores and be a active part of our family, I have a raid to finish with my virtual friend group.

And no, being kind, nice, and funny is not something you have, they are just basic temperament traits. It just means you're not a fucking sociopath that creeps everyone out.

Opposite-Bullfrog-57 · 2023-03-08T12:43:05+00:00

Just offer money.

Fortunately, prostitution is legal in my country.

I think I am moderately attractive. I can easily, too easily get laid for that. But having the paying power means I got to pick who I want the most and who gives the most cost-effective offer. I like that. I also stick around to my biological children and have good genes (I am a mensa member)

But before I made things transactional, I was often scammed. A woman always complains that I am not respectful or that I don't treat her like a boyfriend, or that she likes a generous guy, and I ended up spending money and get nothing.

Then I have had it. I just make things transactional.

The quality of women I am getting improved and I am no longer wasting time and money on those not working.

Women will cost money anyway. The most practical way is to make sure that the terms are clear for both sides.

Hell, not much of an ethical man, but I think the business transaction is the most ethical kind of transaction there is. Deal with women like how you deal with men. What's in it for me? What do you mean? At what price? Deal or no deal.

Title	Everything feels like transactional value, what we bring to the table. Let me explain.
Author	One_Button4120
Upvotes	39
Comments	20
Date	February 9, 2023 12:42 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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