"Dating sucks as a single mom! Waah!" (@Typo-MAGAshiv)

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2023-03-17T13:13:07+00:00

It's fascinating how within a just a couple of generations our culture thinks it can turn off men's eons-old unwillingness to put their energy and resources into the rearing of another man's child.

Sure, you may be able to brow-beat and shame men into "saying" they're ok with the idea, but you can't go into their soul and change the fundamental discomfort they feel in their gut.

PirateDocBrown · 2023-03-17T13:23:20+00:00

Single moms aren't supposed to date.

Joaquino7997 · 2023-03-17T13:53:28+00:00

Commenter 2 is all talk. The reality is there are very, very few men who are willing to sign their lives away to someone who has little to offer and stands to gain damn near everything should things go south.

vegasbadboy702 · 2023-03-17T15:02:34+00:00

Commenter number 2 is “right” that a woman with kids on a dating site does indeed weed out those that are serious versus not. Unfortunately for that commenter it’s not how they think it happens. Most men who are childless do not want to date single moms (especially anyone near the age of 22 in the case of commenter number 1). It’s not rocket science. Those men won’t initiate conversations with women who note having children on their profiles. If that nugget is brought up after the fact they won’t take the conversation further.

Commenter 1 is the prime example of doing things out of order: “it’s also hard to meet people when I have my son most of the time.” Yeah no kidding. Who possibly could have foreseen this? Kinda why for thousands of years we had a family unit structured around raising children and why it was find a good mate first, marry said mate, then have kids and you raise them together.

CottonEyeCuh · 2023-03-17T13:02:06+00:00

anymore

DrDog09 · 2023-03-17T21:21:25+00:00

There is no doubt one has to be careful with single women with kids. They clearly have a marker as to what their social proclivities are but not always. But there are nuggets in the trash pile. I married a woman who had a 12yo daughter. Been married almost 25 years and the daughter shows me more respect than my own biological kids did. Luck of the Irish I guess.

Disastrous-Ad1334 · 2023-03-17T23:25:34+00:00

Naveen was turned back into a prince by a pure (virgin) good hearted Princess not some scrub with another mans child.

She is not Tiana and doesn't understand why Disney Princesses lived happily ever after they made good life choices because of being raised well mainly and had to chose their only husband well because they didn't have no fault divorce with cash and prizes for breaking the marrige contract.

GundamZero83 · 2023-03-17T16:08:09+00:00

Tiana wasn’t a single mom but, she was a hard working woman with life goals.

New_Wrangler3335 · 2023-03-17T22:26:15+00:00

Having kids is great for dating! It filters out all the bad apples

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-03-20T20:01:51+00:00

Commenter 1- Translation: I want a man who I never would have looked at until I became a single mom

Commenter 2- Copium

ODpoetry · 2023-03-23T04:14:09+00:00

The strain of Copium commenter 2 is taking is INSANE.

notthefuzz99 · 2023-03-24T18:52:38+00:00

I love how they try to put a positive spin on single motherhood... "it helps me weed out the bad nuts!"

blaze92x45 · 2023-03-27T00:43:49+00:00

Being a single mom subtracts from you "1 to 10" number

A woman normally a 10 out of 10 with one kid is at best an 8 now. That's assuming baby daddy is completely out of the picture child is still young and not developmentally disabled.

Same circumstance with baby daddy hanging around she is now a 7

Baby daddy hanging around and is a shitty person (typical "bad boy" type) well she is a 6

Bad boy baby daddy hanging around and child is developmentally disabled or otherwise special needs well she is a 5 now.

Each subsequent child (from another man) lowers her number further.

Title	"Dating sucks as a single mom! Waah!" (@Typo-MAGAshiv)
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	90
Comments	24
Date	March 17, 2023 12:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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