What is the gig with men who fetishize putting a bun in your oven?
Whilst this is supposed to come across as some kind of compliment, it gives me the ick, because they're usually doing it with this smug narcissistic look on their face like they're more concerned with saying 'LOOK I DONE IT IN HER' than raising a child and starting a family.
I've came across multiple guys I only started dating that said something along the lines of 'you'd look good pregnant' 'we'd make pretty babies' like hold up chump who said I want to go through 9 months of agony for you, when I barely know you? It's like its entirely about them and their ego and I'm some sort of trophy host body...or they've been watching too much pregnancy porn.
Sorry to burst their bubble, but you don't even have to orgasm to get pregnant :S
DON'T GET ME STARTED on men who start rolling off how many kids they'd like me to birth for them a couple of months in...am I EVEN HUMAN TO THESE MEN?
YEAH OF COURSE YOU WANT 6 KIDS GEORGE, YOU'RE NOT BIRTHING THEM- YOUR INPUT IS MINIMAL. Its like if they're not overly fetishizing you as a sex object, they fetishize you as a giant baby making womb at their service instead?
Either way: YUCK. These are the sorts of men who usually just want to tie some arm candy down young and shackle her with babies so she's stuck with their degenerate manchild asses. You know they want the walking trophy trad innocent mother on their arm, whilst they cheat with lib fem pickmeisha on the side. Or they're the type that drops the mask ONCE she's pregnant.
Please RUN if he starts fetishizing you being pregnant, especially early on. To me its a massive sign of immaturity- having a child is a very big decision both people should be on the same page about. And its not something to fetishize- its says a lot about a man if all he talks about it is how you'd look cute and sExY with a baby bump, rather than talking about how he's going to support that child and build a solid foundation for you all. PRIORITIES!! Pay attention to what a man fixates on the most.
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