What do y'all think?

waxnwayne25 · 2021-03-23T19:11:36+00:00

Why don't you go have a look at the domestic violence statistics amongst Lesbians : ^ )

Jackmoved · 2021-03-23T19:57:06+00:00

I mean, WNBA has a serious problem with this. So maybe not a good example.

xxbighunt_2133xx · 2021-03-23T19:33:04+00:00

Look guys, generalization

Claptrap-94 · 2021-03-23T19:02:58+00:00

Guys have self control.

X_ops_291004 · 2021-03-23T19:17:04+00:00

It isnt the clothes its sick bastards who are assholes everywhere else that people cant seperate from normal functional men

jedi1josh · 2021-03-23T19:13:30+00:00

What about straight women who react like wild cats when they see a shirtless guy?

Rude_aBapening · 2021-03-24T01:36:12+00:00

Some lesbians CANT control themselves.

henrysmyagent · 2021-03-23T19:27:32+00:00

Um...women do rape women.

And sometimes they do it posing as men.

S0mber_ · 2021-03-23T21:00:56+00:00

technically, women can only be impregnated once every 9 months, and men can impregnate a lot of women anytime. so you'd expect women to be more selective and men to be more aggresive in sexual relationships.

i'm not saying "men can't control themselves" bullshit, i'm not a dumb feminist trying to go full psycho mode over a random quote on reddit, i just think that some behaviours might be different between genders.

ViceroyInhaler · 2021-03-23T21:34:24+00:00

Do you see gay men not controlling themselves around other men? What a weird generalization to make.

rtechie1 · 2021-03-24T01:05:23+00:00

Her premise is flawed.

Anecdote:

I'm a bisexual man. I used to hang out at a lesbian biker bar regularly because they were the only place in town that would show the pay-per-view boxing fights. Plus the bartender liked me. I was usually the only man there.

This does not mean everyone else was a lesbian. It was common for straight women to come along with a lesbian friend for a "girl's night out".

What these straight women quickly discovered was that as soon as they got drunk, their lesbian friends get just as grabby as any man.

As a response to this a number of these women approached me and asked me to pretend I was their boyfriend to fend off their grabby friends.

TFWnoLTR · 2021-03-23T19:34:39+00:00

Men and women have innately different biologically driven sexual roles so it shouldn't be suprise to anyone when a woman who likes to fuck other women still behaves like a woman and not like a man.

I'm not even going to touch on their insinuation that men lose control of themselves when they see a hot half naked woman. That's a really ignorant way to describe strong sexual attraction instigated by visual stimuli. It implies normal men resort to rape over it or something.

jacobmakesmovies · 2021-03-23T21:10:10+00:00

ummm...clothing can denote such things as setting, culture, profession, and yes, even sexuality. Pretending that certain articles of clothing do not elicit a sexual response is naive as fuck. Women can dress for reasons X Y and Z, but the REACTION is based upon the individual reacting.

All of that to say, clothing definitely can send messages socially. However, while we can acknowledge the fact that sexual assault in any manner is wrong, we can simultaneously agree to stop playing this stupid game of “clothing has no sexual value” when they CLEARLY do. Of course this doesn’t change the bottom line of “it’s a man problem” because yes, men rape and commit sexual assaults against women and men at higher rates than women. However, the logic of “men are the primary perpetrators, therefore should be avoided/taught differently” is the same logic racists use to be racist. Not to mention, it’s created a pretty toxic environment for men, who basically are told they need to be taught not to rape. This insinuates that men are predisposed to commit rape. And people say that this insinuation does not matter, as “men’s feeling don’t matter when it comes to women’s safety”. This line of thinking is SO destructive because it places men in a grouping of violent criminals when they haven’t done anything wrong.

Teach your sons to respect women. Teach your daughters to respect men. TEACH THEM BOTH THE VALUE OF SEX AND WHAT THAT MEANS

LoonyEqlipse · 2021-03-24T02:06:58+00:00

But men can control themselves. Like, almost all of them. And when the odd man does act inappropriately towards a woman, it's looked down upon.

Fuzi0z · 2021-03-23T20:12:13+00:00

Idk what type of bulldogs they are used to but i dont get any thing if i see a women dressing in front of me. Unless i know I'mma hit that later

chickenonaraft123 · 2021-03-24T00:58:50+00:00

Yeah almost like men have testosterone and women do not

idcawom · 2021-03-24T01:42:22+00:00

Gemma Watts, probably one of the most prolific abuser in the last few years:

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2020/jan/10/woman-gemma-watts-posed-boy-sexually-assault-girls-police

tacticalslacker · 2021-03-24T04:28:16+00:00

Maybe lesbians should learn to control themselves in domestic disputes, too. 🤷🏼‍♂️

CoachOcelot · 2021-03-24T02:32:17+00:00

They actually can't. Crime statistics involving them show this.

DanteLivra · 2021-03-24T03:43:48+00:00

Lesbians are still treated like women in society, with all the (dis)advantages that comes with it.

Men are constantly told that they are worthless if they can't have proximity with a woman. Maybe the problem is that we don't value men who don't need a woman affection to be happy.

There's also the fact that we don't respect the consent of men, producing issues about understanding consent.

While lesbians are still women, so people recognize that they can consent. So they understand the concept.

Lesbians may not be sexual predators but they often are more violent when involved in domestic abuse and violence.

Twitter isn't the place where gender issues will be resolved.

NekoiNemo · 2021-03-24T07:23:21+00:00

Well, if you want to play "that" game... "If girl can react positively when a lesbian says she has hot ass or slaps it, but calls the police when a guy does the same - maybe guy is not the problem here"

adave4allreasons · 2021-03-24T14:32:35+00:00

Actually, a lot of lesbians do not control themselves and sexually harass straight females.

BROYO_F4nny · 2021-03-24T12:02:46+00:00

lmao, anecdotal but the only people to sexually harass my gf at uni were lesbians.

Guys flirt. Lesbians grab her ass and keep trying to make out.

Bullshit tweet

C_Turtle23 · 2021-03-24T12:24:01+00:00

From what I have seen, they can't.

2021-03-24T13:49:07+00:00

Now do Islam Abbi.
Girls at my work constantly sexually assault each other. Perhaps the problem IS still there.

The thinking must be: Oh that's sexual assault. Oh, but she didn't react badly to what she did. I guess... It's not sexual assault even without permission because... Reasons...

(Psst it's female privilege)

Schroedinbug · 2021-03-23T23:00:19+00:00

I'd say it's perfectly valid.

The people saying that women should dress modestly because "men can't control themselves" are simply wrong and shoving their (usually religious) views down our throats.

The way to fix this is simply to agree that both men and women can control themselves, and how someone else is dressed isn't really the issue. Sure when people believe that they are somehow helpless to this, and the culture/laws in that area will lead to little consequences you're going to have more issues. That person using such an excuse or taking advantage of the lower accountability is a piece of shit, but that's not somehow proof that men are animals without reasoning, and certainly doesn't support strict regulation for how people should dress.

Lost_Walker835 · 2021-03-24T04:27:24+00:00

Uh, i think its the individual that is the issue, i now for a fact that when i see a girl wearing revealing clothing, Im not like, "ooh, touchy touchy"

Coomer_Coomiens · 2021-03-24T07:41:00+00:00

Lesbians don't go outside

SSSNERT · 2021-03-24T16:21:00+00:00

You could argue there's no inherent nature for women to be attracted to other women, so overall it's less likely. But yeah whatever

2021-03-25T20:35:59+00:00

Sex robots are not coming fast enough

MrTenor1221 · 2021-03-26T23:45:49+00:00

I mean if it’s your girl friend and you get horny over it that’s fine and normal you want sexual attention but if your getting horny Over women say wearing a tank top and booty shorts that’s when there’s an issue

ghetterking · 2021-03-23T19:39:38+00:00

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OG_walrus · 2021-03-23T20:14:23+00:00

Sample population: 1000 men and 1000 women

10 men rape 900 women.

Conclusion by rad fems? All men are rapists.

Mandalina88 · 2021-03-23T19:45:28+00:00

Lesbian population is way less than the straight male population?

squarebe · 2021-03-24T00:18:37+00:00

Driven by the same survival instinct like breathing, feeding. Im not saying unconsentual sexual acts are fine, but changing your mind the day after doesnt make it rape.

BLENDINGBLENDERS · 2021-03-23T23:07:11+00:00

I dont think this post fits with this subreddit very well. It comee off really petty

PRODSKY22 · 2021-03-23T22:26:47+00:00

But that would mean……… no, NO, NO, GET OUT OF MY HEAD GET OUT OF MY HEAD RIGHT THE FUCK NOW!
/s

octobepis · 2021-03-23T19:41:47+00:00

im gonna leave this sub lmao. it's supposed to be about women avoiding consequences purely because they're women, but i've seen people trying to use biology to justify men sexually assaulting women?? tf?? im not here saying this person is completely right, but their argument isn't generalization of all men, it's literally just saying maybe more guys need to be raised right, which is true, the problem is how people are raised, man or women, because people should be able to wear what they want

peepeepoopoolmao · 2021-03-23T21:01:00+00:00

This more should be enforced in schools where its preteens.

But outside I don't care.

ghetterking · 2021-03-23T19:39:18+00:00

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Lunatic_Cheshire_Cat · 2021-03-24T01:00:30+00:00

It maybe is a male problem statistically (which it is, come on, guys...), but it's not a men-problem.

As some very smart users said before: Yes, sexual assault is generally done by men far more often then by women, maybe even in the >90 percent realm, but that being said, more than 99% of all men don't do it at all, so don't generalize, ladies.

alexaxl · 2021-03-24T11:35:39+00:00

https://m.timesofindia.com/city/delhi/delhi-based-lgbt-activist-held-in-goa-after-sexual-assault-complaint-by-french-woman/amp_articleshow/81300736.cms

Goa police book Delhi woman for sexual assault on French woman Mohua Das | TNN | Updated: Mar 3, 2021, 10:01 IST

Just because it’s not well reported or not as media multiplied doesn’t mean it don’t happen.

Humans are capable of divine & opposite.

alexaxl · 2021-03-24T11:36:37+00:00

https://m.timesofindia.com/city/delhi/delhi-based-lgbt-activist-held-in-goa-after-sexual-assault-complaint-by-french-woman/amp_articleshow/81300736.cms

Goa police book Delhi woman for sexual assault on French woman Mohua Das | TNN | Updated: Mar 3, 2021, 10:01 IST

Just because it’s not well reported or not as media multiplied doesn’t mean it don’t happen.

Humans are capable of divine & opposite.

alexaxl · 2021-03-24T11:42:28+00:00

And what about the time this female shoved her tits & pushed them into my body without asking or any consent from me, to entice me?

She was signalling..

ghetterking · 2021-03-24T12:00:20+00:00

what i think is that the women raping women kind of rape is probably the least researched aspect of rape between the sexes so we really cant tell if lesbians indeed can control themselves as well as the op implies or not. maybe they do, which i do wish for the sake of humanity, but maybe they're the worst group of all, who really knows?

heathenhellstar · 2021-03-24T12:02:15+00:00

Yeah i cant control myself when boys wear revealing clothes and im striaght swag face

legojack04 · 2021-03-24T12:24:59+00:00

nobody should stare or be a dick about it

CioccolatoAllaMenta · 2021-03-27T08:57:33+00:00

They don't.

AzLibDem · 2021-03-30T04:44:23+00:00

The rate of intimate partner violence among lesbian couples is 25% higher than that of heterosexual couples, and twice that of gay ones.

dark_swoles · 2021-04-01T00:06:27+00:00

I mean I can agree that men are more primal and instinctive on average than women. The thing I have a problem with is how people love to misconstrue the argument that dressing provocatively can increase the likelyhood of harrassment and rape and act like you're saying rape is ok and that they deserved it. Nobody is saying that. Like if I tell you to put on sunscreen it doesn't mean that I secretly hope everyone who doesn't wear sunscreen gets skin cancer. Do whatever you want, but just know that the world is not a perfect place.

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