If you are asking yourself whether you should block him

TopJunket7249 · 2021-03-20T19:32:50+00:00

Truth. If I have always followed my gut feeling, I would be in a much better situation and not have been caught up in 99% of shit in life.

hotjuice2 · 2021-03-20T17:26:21+00:00

If the question even pops in your head, it’s for good reason.

GIfuckingJane · 2021-03-20T17:30:21+00:00

ABB

Always Be Blocking

Pahapan · 2021-03-21T02:06:56+00:00

Just blocked one yesterday! He asked me to go on a date the following night and then canceled that morning. Messaged me claiming he hadn't realized what day of the week our date would be on and that he had exams due and was like, "Another time, I swear!" Boy, bye. I responded "lol" then blocked him. I maybe should have blocked without saying anything but he's a former coworker. He'd come into my workplace to ask me out in person and I don't want him to approach me there again, thinking I didn't get his message or something. I wanted him to know I'd read it and that he was found wanting, lol.

This is the first time I've practiced FDS in a dating context and I'm honestly so proud of myself. I used to be a huge PickMe and the old me would have been like, "omg no problem! Let me know when's good for you!!! 🙂🙂🙂" Mainstream society would consider him a catch. He's going to a prestigious school while holding down a part time job, he's driven and ambitious, and he's physically attractive. But the best case scenario is that he procrastinates on his work, has bad time management, and doesn't even know what day of the week it is at any given time. Worst case scenario is he's an asshole. Either way, I'm not giving men second chances to disrespect me anymore. 🤷‍♀️

Summerisle7 · 2021-03-20T17:21:07+00:00

Period dot the end!!

Crit-a-Cola · 2021-03-21T05:41:32+00:00

The emotional quandaries that people put themselves through due to loser men just astounds me. You feel nervous and anxious around him? Like he'll harm you or yell at you or upset you? Fucking run. That feeling is your brain recognizing a fucking threat. You've likely just keyed in on some part of him that's utterly revolting-- his true self. Block him. You should almost NEVER experience anxiety around another person no matter who they are, ESPECIALLY someone you are dating and looking to make an intimate bond with.

There is just no question. Block. Goodbye.

glittersparklesglitz · 2021-03-20T17:19:41+00:00

💯

dancedance_83 · 2021-03-21T00:00:13+00:00

Yep. And if you’re wrong about them (which I doubt) they can work to prove it (which I doubt they would)

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2021-03-20T22:12:16+00:00

And this is why I’m scrolling thru rn lol..... damn why’s it always the cute ones???

Title	If you are asking yourself whether you should block him
Author	NannuhBannan
Upvotes	354
Comments	15
Date	March 20, 2021 5:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m9b8yu/if_you_are_asking_yourself_whether_you_should/
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