Surprisingly self aware. She’s sugar coating the drug use and being a whore. She also has no career (mid 30s bartender)

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-03-01T01:18:26+00:00

In reality, she was boring in her 20s and overcompensated with sex, drugs, and alcohol because she liked the attention she got.

In her 30s, she has no idea how to interact with people without being passed around like a party favor.

Actions meet consequences.

vtec__ · 2021-03-01T01:15:23+00:00

the amount of damage these girls have done to our society is truly insurmountable. i know alot of really smart, high potential guys who are pretty much checking out of society (..im about to be one of them...)

BraveStrategy · 2021-03-01T00:32:02+00:00

Love the comments from the other sluts in agreement. I think the one wants to move across the country because she’s ruined her reputation in our town.

3HardWay · 2021-03-01T01:22:43+00:00

Title to this post is misleading. You cannot take the hamster's words at face value.

The hamster admits to being wild in her 20s to take away a man's ammo. "I told you up front about my past. You knew what you were getting into."

She then tries to use all kinds of psychological tricks to ensnare the unsuspecting male. She claims:

I really only have qualities a husband would appreciate now.

and lists her interests as:

making money, a clean house, crafting, gardening

and describes it all as:

"Boring stuff." I'm not interesting. I wasted all my interesting years...

And the snare is set.

See, I doubt she has any qualities a husband would appreciate. That is not self-aware at all. She would like you to believe that though. And her interests? Making money, well most people need to do that to survive, doesn't sound like she is any good at it. Keeping a clean house probably only as long as she has to.

But the real trap is to describe it all as boring and not interesting, providing the perfect opportunity for the man to reassure her that she is very interesting and quite the contrary, let him show her her worth. This is a common con. The con artist presents in such a self-deprecating way that your good will causes you to invest emotionally in them thinking it is your idea.

THUNDERBUTTBALLKICKR · 2021-03-01T01:17:04+00:00

The worst part is they are told from birth not to be sluts and fuck around and do it anyway. Female relatives, any male role models,, pregnant high school sluts, MTV. Etc. So many examples all over not fuck up and yet they do..

Imagine having the whole world thrown at you and doing nothing with it. Still a belief somehow that it will all magically work out.

lotsofhubris · 2021-03-01T00:45:18+00:00

Your life is a byproduct of your choices.

Ride the cock carousel and no good man wants you later. You made your bed, now lie in it alone

kidruhil · 2021-03-01T01:41:46+00:00

I'd never considered it but ill now consider it's a red flag if a woman ever moves cross country without really good reasons.

And who am I kidding, nothing a woman can say will ever be a really good reason lol

sony_anumo · 2021-03-01T02:14:51+00:00

I like how there are 20 year old women, who see all the experiences 30 and 40 year olds have.
They read all of this, they have it laid out several times, yet it never sinks in, even a little.

"Its a myth, not true" and so on, until they sit there, alone and used up with 2 kids from different men, arms full of needle scars, and a red ring of herpes around the pussy.

Women seem to struggle with the concept of their youth and looks making them more intresting.
How many 21 year olds have you not met who thinks everyone are nice and kind and likes them for they, and how the whole world are just good people.

Well are they all really nice people or are they just being nice to the young pretty girl?
Suddenly you cannot get away with a cute look when you do not have a buss ticket and you get the same treatment as males get from 6 years up, you are thrown out.

ThaiEscapePlan · 2021-03-01T01:46:21+00:00

Women are millionaires in the their teens and twenties. But if they don't capitalize on that wealth (youth, beauty and fertility), it is frittered away. They are depreciating assets. This woman has come to the realization she's flat ass broke and non of the appreciating assets want to fix her balance sheet

JerryNewton7 · 2021-03-01T00:43:01+00:00

I bet she'll tell you:

"I'm not like the other girls"

upsidedownbackwards · 2021-03-01T04:00:26+00:00

Hey, I'd totally date a 30s girl that was into making money, cleaning the house, crafting the house, gardening.

But like her they dream about their exciting 20s, you can see it in their thousand cock stair. That's how I lost my sister in law, she went from the "boring 30s" trying to chase her exciting 20s and was stunned when her "boring 30s" (my brother) husband wouldn't take her back after she found out nobody wants to hang out with an old hag.

I could totally deal with the "boring 30s" girls if they were actually happy with their boring 30s. But they aren't.

NickTesla2018 · 2021-03-01T00:31:20+00:00

The dong carousel goes round and round...

Buchwild · 2021-03-01T07:54:23+00:00

If you were to ask a girl what a marriage-minded man finds attractive and what she can do to secure him you'll only be met with blank stares. Most people just don't understand men and instead of trying to learn they shame and attack.

IncorrigibleLee86 · 2021-03-01T02:41:54+00:00

LPT: dont LTR the new girl in town. She moved away from her thottery. Strippers do this all the time FYI.

2021-03-01T04:41:37+00:00

I once saw a single mother in my Snapchat point out the fact that she thought she was going to be married with 3 kids and wealthy by 26 but instead she ended up a broke single mom at 26 years old. I was like damn....you right tho LOL

opistrue · 2021-03-01T07:54:53+00:00

idiots?

no, those good looking bad boys aren't idiots

she just blames men for her own failure in order to deflect responsibility

notice the wording: "ONLY a husband would appreciate"

implies that a husband is of lesser quality.

UndrrondXzy · 2021-03-01T07:14:41+00:00

Someone tell them they spend the time with idiots because they have things in common.. like being idiots

Suspicious_Mud_5485 · 2021-03-01T00:45:51+00:00

The carousel is strong

SybridPanda · 2021-03-01T07:07:05+00:00

Lol. Its good that they are taking themselves out of the gene pool.

ONEJOHNSON · 2021-03-01T12:00:03+00:00

"Wasted interesting years on idiots". No. You chose them of your own volition, you, nobody else. You are just bitter you are experiencing the repercussions of your whorish actions..

Randallsixx13 · 2021-03-01T12:59:56+00:00

"Wild" always means whoring, drugs/drinking and whoring. Always.

TheRiseAndFall · 2021-03-01T07:20:25+00:00

"Only have qualities a husband would appreciate now."

LOL! Try again, sweaty!

2021-03-01T11:43:55+00:00

She was NEVER "interesting"

Whores aren't "interesting"

RunawayGrain · 2021-03-01T13:55:38+00:00

"My personality had two facets: Hot and boring. Now it's just boring."

king_of_the_potato_p · 2021-03-01T09:27:17+00:00

At least they admitted THEY wasted their time and not just blaming men.

meerita · 2021-03-01T10:05:02+00:00

Consequences of the cock-carousel.

Joh_Ghurt · 2021-03-01T12:04:38+00:00

She seems self aware enough that she has a slim chance to make it. I've seen it happen, but it's hard.

For this she first needs to be willing to bring something to the table to her future partner and second she must switch to liking men who might be interested.

This means no more Chads and caring about how she improves her partner's life.

In most cases, this won't happen before hell freezes over and she drowns in cats.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-03-01T15:01:05+00:00

They always approach it like hunting down wild animals. They don't want a husband. They want a wild animal.they can tame, and then get bored.

2021-03-01T13:05:15+00:00

The guys wasted time with idiots too, but they didn't stayed , smart move.

2021-03-01T14:27:46+00:00

Simple answer:

You wont. Learn to live with it.

Machomuk89 · 2021-03-01T15:45:16+00:00

I said I like a clean house, not that I like cleaning house.

colly_wolly · 2021-03-01T16:47:05+00:00

She was likely hot in her 20's so needed to make no effort. Now her looks are fading she realizes that there is little else to her.

Lilpops13 · 2021-03-01T17:37:08+00:00

Why would I wanna date someone that’s quite boring

karenmiputafavorita · 2021-03-01T18:41:22+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nyaSMbAx3I&t=80s&ab_channel=iceplusplus

The car's engine: either of these two th0ts.

Luca's oil solution: the other th0t's adventure to move cross country.

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-03-01T23:55:56+00:00

me. me. me. She probably will get some poor bastard; RIP

mustangfrank · 2021-03-02T01:31:08+00:00

Sorry MODS. I have to post this for it points the truth and is backed up by her own words.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a man's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of thinking he was entitled to sex just for being nice.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys he was a "NiceGuy™" unworthy of dating, but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout he's a "real man" who treats her with respect.

Obnoxiousjimmyjames · 2021-05-08T07:09:28+00:00

"I was real wild. Real. Wild."

Wow. She sounds interesting! And not at all cocaine-slutty. Not at all. How do I get in touch with her?!

Title	Surprisingly self aware. She’s sugar coating the drug use and being a whore. She also has no career (mid 30s bartender)
Author	BraveStrategy
Upvotes	540
Comments	137
Date	March 1, 2021 12:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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