Opinions on this topic please? Mods please remove if against the rules

Apprehensive_Ad1248 · 2020-12-03T17:50:55+00:00

This is pure fucking projection.

All feminist do is bitch about the patriarchy and the wage gap. All they fucking do is complain about how opressed they've been by men for centuries.

This is so infurtating to deal with. They're complaining about us doing things THAT THEY DO AND IS COMPLETLY ACCEPTED IN THE MAINSTREAM.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-12-03T18:18:37+00:00

For once, feminists have said something in which if you reverse the sexes, it still applies.

peggyrodman7835 · 2020-12-03T17:55:11+00:00

It’s not the woman’s fault is guys pay but as someone else noted, don’t be bitching and moaning about exploitation when women are literally flaunting their tits for money. Guys do it as well but a nice cock does not bring in nearly as much as mediocre tits.

Nic-River · 2020-12-03T20:21:36+00:00

I mean, yeah, men who blame women for things like selling nudes online are exhibing incredibly toxic and ridiculous behavior. Even if you're an "addict" as other commenters have described. That doesn't give you the right to harass and demean. A drug addict who suffers, I feel bad for them, but as soon as said drug addict attacks or harms another verbally or physically. Then that is inexcusable. Similarly a lonely porn addict being sad, lonely, and addicted to porn that in and of itself isn't something to ridicule. But when they start to blame women in general and make demeaning comments, they then become the asshole.

Now, many of you are upset by the title of this post. Maybe it could have been worded better. But one of the "hot" posts on this sub with MANY awards is literally titled "Women More Hostile than Men in Politics". Don't you think that is a bit hypocritical?

Here's another article for you with a brazen headline: https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/10/why-do-more-men-women-sexually-harass/572221/

Why Men Sexually Harass Women

Wow, isn't that an awful headline that demeans an entire sex? Yes, but there are statistics backing it. Does that make it okay? I don't know. What do you all think? I personally don't like headlines like this or post titles saying "All men" or "All women".

But this sub SEEMS TO BE OKAY WITH IT according to that one aforementioned "Women more hostile than men" post.

So if any of you upvoted that, I find it to be hypocritical for you to upvote that and downvote something like this.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2020-12-03T17:50:40+00:00

Im not even gonna try to read that i dont want to get cancer.

spaghettbaguett · 2020-12-03T20:11:52+00:00

While their point is valid (in that 1 situation) the hypocrisy is extremely ironic.

"I wish men would start taking responsibility instead of blaming women for their problems"

yeah, because women never do that, right? (/s)

Bonjourbonjourreturn · 2020-12-03T18:38:58+00:00

Okay they can say that, then :

1) Don't complain if a man doesn't like it and doesn't want to date you if you do so, it is his choice if he does not want to

2) Dont complain about the "wage gap" which is about choice, "muh gender sterotype"

3) Dont complain about the stereotype and peer pressure, it is your choice to follow or trangress it.

The previous point (3) could be legit, but in this case it goes both way for men and women. Stop with the hypoagency of women and the men hyperagency....

2020-12-03T18:42:54+00:00

90% of the time when a woman has hurt me they've explained to me how it was my fault they hurt me.

My mother explained to me how it was my fault she took an abusive ex's side because I didnt keep my relationship separate and allowed her to develope a relationship with her

I had an ex repeatedly explain to me how it was my fault she cheated on me, because I didn't do x y z.

My current gf, yesterday, she explained to me how the reason why she didnt follow through with a plan I helped her create to get her finances in order was because she didnt understand it..... when I asked why she didnt come to me or anyone to explain it.. she told me she didnt know what questions to ask/didnt know what she was doing was wrong. Even though it was a step by step plan where she simply didnt do steps....

Ill acknowledge one thing with feminism, society doesn't give women enough agency... and women play that shit to their advantage all the time.

666Ruler · 2020-12-03T19:38:34+00:00

i got banned from that sub for this comment:

"how hard would it be to make this post less sexist.

"Men will blame women for everything", just wow. i dont blame women for the sun shining into my face.

" I wish men would start taking responsibility instead of blaming women for their problems" how about u had written it like this "I wish people would start taking responsibility instead of blaming other people for their problems"

but no, we need a clickbait title"

whilst it not being the nicest post from me i do think that its the truth, oh and the original post is against atleast 2 rules of that sub(rule 1 and 3)

Bojack35 · 2020-12-03T20:26:21+00:00

The title is clickbaity (not yours the crossposted one.)

I agree with the content though. It is an individuals choice - regardless of their gender - whether to pay for an only fans account or not. Nobody forced them to do it. Yes loneliness and/or sexual frustration is probably a factor. But their response to those problems being paying someone for private porn is their decision.

I'm an alcoholic I dont blame my issues on the alcohol industry- it's my personal decisions that are the issue not the availability of alcohol.

PM_ME_DNA · 2020-12-04T00:16:10+00:00

Fucking hell. I do blame the damn drug dealer who encourages a person to OD. Predating on men with mental issues, and knowingly leading them on just so you can milk money out of them.

Kingkirbs1962 · 2020-12-03T20:09:27+00:00

I think everyone on this subreddit(MensRights) is missing a major fucking problem here.

"It's not like he has a porn addiction and wants to satisfy his needs. No, it's the woman using his loneliness instead. It's her fault he pays."

What the fuck is this shit. Why the fuck is an addict being blamed for exhibiting addictive fucking behavior. It probably isn't the woman's fault, but it most certainly isn't the fucking addicts. This fucking sentiment is awful. Its why the gaming industry has gotten to the point where they legistlation to curb their explotative fucking buisness models. Addiction ruins lives and addicts don't choose that shit. The podcast point might be shit, but atleast their hearts in right place. Addicts of vulnerable fucking people, and buinesses should scrutinzed. We should question whether a buisness takes advantage of vulnerable people.

So why the fuck is everyone triggered over some perceived blame game bullshit. There are bigger problems with this fucking post.

RockmanXX · 2020-12-03T19:44:32+00:00

Women make up 50% of the human population. They are also to blame for things that happen in Society, Women are not passive agents that exist in a vacuum. You walk on roads that were built by MEN, you exist thanks to some man's sperm. Men&Women do NOT Exist in 2 different worlds, Society is meant for co-existence, not gender warfare.

and then blame these women for 'exploiting male loneliness'

Yes, u/hotowl4694 i do blame them for exploiting Male Loneliness.

EDIT: lol thanks for the downvote, HotOwl4694. It lets me know that you read it, get rekt.

They act like the man has no responsibility in what he decides to do.

I blame both the drug dealer and the drug addict. I don't respect what Drug dealers do because they PREY on the loneliness&misery of drug addicts, that is what OnlyFans does.

It's not like he decided to take his credit card out and pay for these services himself

Its not like the drug addict didn't buy 50 syringes of heroin using money from his wallet, why do we jail drug dealers?

If you have a porn addiction please get help instead of blaming women for it.

Porn addiction enablers also need to be held accountable, that includes Onlyfans thots.

Oncefa2 · 2020-12-03T19:43:07+00:00

Just so you know, not all feminists are like this.

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Crosspost "Men will blame women for everything" from /r/TwoXChromosomes:

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If you think defending your rights is Feminism(Man Hatred) then i cannot help you.

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