I'm mainly talking about Redpilled and Incels, some of these guys think that Patriarchy could solve any dating issue by giving a woman to each man. However they are coping because they fail to consider that Patriarchy doesn't guarantee Physical Attraction and attraction in general, they want to delude themselves into believing that under Patriarchy women would genuinely care for them and lust for them in the bed (LOL)

If you are Blackpilled and see reality for what is is you'll know that these types of feelings are irrational and only being considered Physically Attractive by your gf/wife can guarantee intimacy and good sex, you cannot force them by culture or education.

It feels to me that these types of men are actually jealous of Chads and likely want to be one deep down, but since they can't they cope with advocating for an obsolete societal structure that "worked" in the past, deluding themselves into believing it would give them what they want. As the cherry on top some are also unironically misogynists, which is just another cope.