What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?

tengo_harambe · 2023-03-28T20:46:20+00:00

I assume everybody from group 1 is in their teens and everyone from group 2 is in their 20s.

At least I'd hope so. Group 1 gets a bit of a pass for their idiocy because their brains are not fully developed and are lacking in experience, plus might still be entitled due to living with and being supported by parents.

But for any grown ass self sufficient adult who hasn't mentally matured beyond that, virginity is definitely the least of their issues

Taipanshimshon · 2023-03-28T17:21:26+00:00

Intelligence and prior entitlement

500mgofShower · 2023-03-28T18:53:23+00:00

Person number 2 is probably asexual, has no testosterone or a hormone profile that doesn't function properly, or a women who knows sooner or later she can get someone

upalse · 2023-03-29T05:51:30+00:00

Temporarily embarrassed chad vs beta uprising wannabe.

gruckendud · 2023-03-29T13:55:38+00:00

As someone who can be very salty and can drag people down, despite actually having success in the past, I would say that the person who mentioned entitlement is correct. I figured since I have been with girls in the past then I should be able to attract them, but honestly I must have just gotten very lucky at first and there are many reasons women would want to avoid me.

I think after a while you get humbled by the blackpill and have no choice but to accept that things will not improve for your own sanity, being that angry every day is not worth it.

PubertyDeformedFace · 2023-03-30T01:24:05+00:00

Their level of narcissism, what they expect from life and what they hope they will get from other people.

Basically, person one is a normie tier narcissistic "loser" because they are capable of attaining all the basics in life such as a job, friends, dates, relationships and hookups but they expect only the best and when they make mistakes which lead to their situation, they blame everyone else for it. This leads to them being bitter and hateful, but deep down they know they will ascend and have a normal chance at life, so they act this way for attention especially online due to the anonymity. Eventually they become successful and they leave these types of communities as they mature and change their approach.

Person two is a truecel, they have already tried everything and failed, they know it's over, but they have decided not to rope. They just live with the suffering everyday, knowing there's no way out but still dreaming of an exit someday and do what they can. I used to be person 1 when I was normie tier before puberty and even after my face got destroyed and I was in denial about how ugly I was, my life was still shitty back then but I had hope and thought it could work out now I am number two.

I recognize it's over but am not yet ready to die, so I take it slowly every-day one step at a time and while I despise human nature, there's nothing I can do about it and I see the same flaws in myself and know I am unable to rise above it, because I am human just like everyone else. And anyone who claims they aren't influenced by looks or won't treat people differently as a result of it is a moral narcissist trying to manipulate you so they can control you and use you as a punching bag. Don't fall for this trap, it doesn't matter how intelligent a person is they are still human and hence lookist and favor looks over everything else while either ostracizing or punching down on ugly people.

TelephonicRugPeddler · 2023-03-28T18:20:56+00:00

Narcissism.

I am firm in my belief that most self-proclaimed incels are failed narcissists or autistic.

Well-adjusted people don’t behave that way. It takes a very certain personality type to be very angry about not getting laid, obsess over the sex life of a 1% man, and then find an internet community full of other people to specifically discuss the sex life of women and a 1% man.

Blackpill =! Inceldom. Looks are the most important thing in modern dating, 100% indisputable.

Inceldom comes with the mentality that if women aren’t throwing themselves at you like male models get and if you aren’t banging the hottest possible women then you’re gonna get betabuxxed or you’re “fighting for scraps”.

If these cucks would just get plastic surgery then they’d have a chance. Imagine being blackpilled and not fixing the most important thing possible for dating when there’s an entire industry full of skilled professionals that specialize in fixing it.

caption291 · 2023-03-28T22:57:14+00:00

I don't know what differentiates these two types from each other because I haven't seen someone highly self-aware AND accepting of their situation.

Ok-Bell3376 · 2023-03-29T10:34:48+00:00

What does 'accepting it' mean?

I feel depressed about my lot in life, but I don't blame anyone.

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