What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?

cowfishAreReal · 2022-09-27T14:14:40+00:00

The fact that it's easy to get casual sex as a woman is completely worthless to most women. Not really an advantage if you don't want it.

The9thElement · 2022-09-27T14:25:33+00:00

no, the vast majority of us don’t view onlyfans and sex work as a viable career choice, and the fact that men here supposedly think that women making lots of easy money off onlyfans is an example of female privilege is laughable.
Men are generally more dangerous than women. It’s not misandry to recognize this and be very weary of males.
Straight women are NOT attracted to men. They are attracted to specific men. Straight men are attracted to women.
Periods can be debilitating
Being promiscuous isn’t a crime like the way y’all talk about slutty women like they are devil spawn or serial killers like I really don’t get it. Promiscuity isn’t a wise life choice but it does not make a person worthless or evil
Women who are single and childlesss by choice and say they are happy, are genuinely happy. I don’t know why this is hard to believe for so many.

Also women already know most of the things you listed

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-09-27T13:53:15+00:00

As a woman, it's so laughably stupid that men think that sex work is a reasonable option for women. There's such a laundry list of risk associated with sex work, not just in the immediate but long-term if she wants to be anything but a sex worker for the rest of her life. The fact that guys think that most women can just open their phone and make millions of dollars selling feet pics is so far beyond stupid, it's unreal. But I see this kind of rhetoric all the time.

Also, so many men don't realize that just because sex is easy for women to get, doesn't mean it's worth the risk. Nor do they realize how gross and bad at sex most men are. Male orgasm is basically guaranteed but female orgasm is something that requires more than just a Grindr-esque quick fuck. But most men don't care about female orgasm so they can't fathom why, for women, sex and ESPECIALLY casual sex is such a terrible, unwanted thing. Imagine if you had a casual sexual encounter, were practically guaranteed to never orgasm, and then were considered a slut afterward? And that's BEST case scenario that doesn't factor in the potential for sexual assault or STDs.

Men have no concept of how completely abhorrent and terrible casual sex is for women, simply because it's something that they want so they lack the empathy to see why the majority of women don't.

darkvalleys · 2022-09-27T14:04:16+00:00

Most women know these things

We’re still not gonna have sex with you

risdeveau · 2022-09-27T14:25:39+00:00

1 No, we’re well aware, as men are always complaining. Your mom was being….ugh

2 Yes, we know, and that’s because the male libido is unsatisfiable

3 Yes, we know. Sorry, this isn’t the 1950s anymore

4 Unfortunately, it does work. On both genders

5 Many men claim that their friendships are not like this. I believe men

6 Yes, we know that no one fears us

Oli_love90 · 2022-09-27T14:31:00+00:00

There are so many non truths about women here that maybe it’s best to just speak from your own pov. This highlights just how little men understand about the daily life of the average, general women.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-27T14:31:32+00:00

I don’t buy 2 or 3. My husband’s N count is waaaay higher than mine, and mine isn’t particularly low. And despite mine not being particularly low, I’ve had no shortage of men who have wanted to date me, commit to me and even marry me. Maybe for every young men this is important but most men just want to have sex and the people they are having sex with are generally not virgins. 4 is also a bit “off.” Women do not “like the competition.” Many of us don’t want to be made to compete for the affections of our interest. We’ll just walk away because we would rather be with someone who is into us than someone who is trying to build a harem.

Also with respect to 5, I am shocked that you say women were shocked. If there are enough stalls available in a public restroom I do the same thing, I don’t take an adjacent stall but leave an empty stall between me and the next occupied one. Obviously sometimes that is not possible but it is preferred. Bathroom smells and noises aren’t always pleasant and you owe the other person at least an attempt at privacy.

On to addressing your question.

PPD men at least seem to think that we women can all just start doing OnlyFans and all our money troubles can go away! There are many reasons this is not practical. The majority of us don’t have OnlyFans bodies or faces, but more importantly we don’t have OnlyFans personalities. We don’t have the confidence and sensuality to pull it off, or we don’t want our naked pictures on the internet to haunt us for the rest of our lives or for our families or “regular jobs” to see it.

This goes double or triple for prostitution. As easy as y’all think it would be to just sell your body to the highest bidder, many of us find this abhorrent. Having men we aren’t attracted or in love with to touch us and fuck us is akin to rape - not actual rape of course, but many of us would be repulsed. We aren’t like men. We don’t want to have sex with just anyone who comes along and offers, even if he pays. There’s the risk of being found out and having that reputation follow you forever. You could be arrested and thrown in jail. You could be subject to violence from your “business partners” in addition to the daily threat of violence, rape and even murder from your clients. There are STDs and pregnancy to worry about. Sex work is not the easy fix so many men seem to think it would be.

Men don’t seem to understand anything at all about periods, pregnancy or delivery. They just think you get fat and then pop out a baby. No, your body goes through amazing changes, and some of those changes are unpleasant, painful, and difficult to bounce back from even weeks or months after having a baby.

Not all of us wear makeup. Some of us don’t like to, or are too lazy, or have skin sensitivities and makeup causes us to break out. No amount of foundation can fix bumpy skin or acne scars so best not make it worse.

Many of us like working. We find it fulfilling and mentally stimulating. We have goals outside of popping out babies and cleaning up after a husband. And of course the same men that say they want a submissive, stay at home wife are also the ones that scream loudest about divorce rape. They want her not to work because that makes her dependent on him and less likely to leave. The reality is that as a woman you need to have your own money. Not all men are good husbands and providers and what happens to you and your kids if your husband dies or gets too sick to work or leaves you for a younger woman or turns out to be abusive or something? Many of us have seen that play out with our parents or relatives or friends and it often doesn’t end prettily for the woman and/or her children.

There are definitely other things but this is getting long considering I typed it out on my phone and also I need to go start my work day.

ruboyuri · 2022-09-27T14:47:45+00:00

We already know

We’re just not gonna prioritize your needs over ours like you want

NockerJoe · 2022-09-27T14:10:12+00:00

You can't turn it off.

A lot of women think being a man would be fun becauze they'd get to intimidate people or be taken a certain way but they don't get that that's not some hat you can put on or take off whenever you want. They think theres some sort of fictional category of dude who can just de facto be seen as safe if he says sone secret password but in a lot of ways being a man is like constantly having a gun surgically attached to you. You're going to get the same reaction even if you're in a 7/11 grabbing a soda as you would trying to intimidate someone on the street as you would if something terrible happens and there's an emergency you need help with right now.

Hell look at OP. Dude is a paranoid nutcase because some dude asked a cashier a question and didn't wait in the whole checkout line for several hours to ask one question. He immediatley assumes both that that dude would attack him if he said anything, and also that his being a bigger dude is why he's exempt from not waiting in line for several hours for a non transaction interaction that probably lasted 30 seconds in real life. An otherwise mundane thing that happens every day turns into a weird power struggle because his mom wanted to be a karen and he inherited her passice aggressiveness.

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-09-27T14:27:10+00:00

That women believe that they are entitled to a man’s commitment, and will drag your name for not giving it to them when they want it

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howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-09-27T15:05:38+00:00

Then my mom said: "In moments like these I feel the urge to just start screaming saying he should go to the back of the line! Make a lot of noise".

Not to nitpick but maybe the fact that your mom joked about doing this but then didnt do it, indicates that she also knew it was a bad idea.

Men and women both live with the threat of violence, but different types and in different circumstances.

Title	What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?
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Date	September 27, 2022 1:26 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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