I honestly just wish the soon to be ex wife would be willing to allow the kids for me to see them. I asked a week ago if the kids could come with to go get dinner with them. I called today and she said “they don’t wanna go with you.” I honestly think she talks bad about me to them, but I don’t speculate bc it just aggravates me. Court order that we share every other weekend, so there is no obligation for her to give them to me, but yeah. How have y’all handled this in the past?