When a girl does not cum.

Scheme00 · 2018-01-08T05:22:25+00:00

Some girls can't unless it's with masterbation. Why don't you just ask her how she can? I had a girl over the other night and I straight up said "can you come from clitoral stimulation or sex?" She said no only with her vibrator. Haven't even had sex with her yet but found out her favorite positions etc.

somebullshitrp · 2018-01-08T05:39:33+00:00

Lots of women have the same porn and "death grip" issues that men have, which makes it hard for them to cum.

Since most women these days seem to have at least one gasoline powered vibrator, you might need to be a bit rougher with them.

nofilmynofucky · 2018-01-08T07:51:44+00:00

Flip her into doggy, grab a handful of her hair, play with her asshole and tell her 'touch yourself bitch I wanna hear you'

seems to work for most girls, if not then ramp up the choking

bluepillcarl · 2018-01-08T10:56:10+00:00

If she uses a hitachi.. Good luck.

Herdsengineers · 2018-01-08T14:50:20+00:00

i've been with 2 women that had major issues orgasming during sex. one developed it after we were married. no big surprise there, have a kid, etc. things change.

the other could only orgasm from penetration if she were on her stomach, hips prop'd on a pillow, and you went in at just the right angle to hit just the right spot. it was extremely mechanical, not real sexy to be honest.

both of them otherwise had head issues about their bodies and hangups about sex. my opinion, based on experience with lots of other women that orgasm easy, is as long as a man can get hard, stay hard, and isn't shy about being in charge in bed, which should be 80% of us at least able to do the basics, then the women he's with should mostly be able to get off with him.

the women that just can't get off, with most any guy they fuck, they have something in their own headspace they need to get out of the way and there isn't a thing you can do about it. women need to own up to themselves for their own pleasure and what they need. i particularly enjoy having a woman in doggie, and her giving herself a helping hand or holding a vibrator on her clit while I pound her. Same thing for her on top riding me.

SmamelessMe · 2018-01-08T15:29:23+00:00

Didn't you hear?

If you can't get it up, it's your fault.
If she can't get wet, it's your fault.
If you can't cum, it's your fault.
If she can't cum, it's your fault.

Female orgasm is a lot about psychology, try to tease / deny her more during foreplay to warm her up. This will make her more horny and she should have easier time cumming.

When all else fails, buy Hitachi magic wand, or a Chinese knockoff.

Montrealais69 · 2018-01-08T15:47:14+00:00

Every woman is different.
Some women have desensitized themselves with vibrators and porn. My wife can only cum when she fantasizes about me fucking other women in front of her.

Rares5555 · 2018-01-08T16:53:32+00:00

First: Stop eating pussy, make her suck your dick. That’s gold advice I found in a post some time ago. Performing oral sex on somebody has a submissive undertone, and you don’t want to get that across.

Second: Fuck her like she’s your sex doll, don’t give a fuck.

djthiago1 · 2018-01-08T10:27:05+00:00

Ask her if she can orgasm from masturbation, if yes, find a position where she can touch herself. Easy.

MattyAnon · 2018-01-08T13:11:51+00:00

ng and she does get worked up, but still no cum

tease more.

e have been seeing each other for 3 months casually but she to my knowledge has never came, but she still comes back eagerly.

try to relax about it more.

she's eager to see you,clearly something is right

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-01-08T18:03:28+00:00

You want to stroke your ego i see. Doing that you search validation thro sex from her.

Dont. By doing it you are investing. By investing you develope onitis.

But to help you - have you tried to reach her gspot with fingers? Ram it till she squirts. Then go in.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-08T13:05:52+00:00

Who gives a shit? Did you bust a nut? Yes? Then that’s all that matters. Stop making sex about her. It’s about you and whether or not she can get you off.

vandaalen · 2018-01-08T06:07:56+00:00

I play with this girl for like 10-20 minutes by deep sensual rubbing/fingering

What? Why?

RylanBlackwood · 2018-01-08T12:52:00+00:00

Unfortunately it's your fault 99% of the time. If a woman stressed or extremely upset then it might prevent her from cumming but if your technique is correct you shouldn't have a problem. Look up how to give a woman a g-spot orgasm. There's a decent video on pornhub. Also look up David shade it's a good place to start. http://masterful-lover.com/uncategorized/the-secret-to-really-great-sex/

kieran9323 · 2018-01-08T21:00:29+00:00

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When a girl does not cum.

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I DON'T THINK THIS ALWAYS WORKS. FOR EXAMPLE WITH A SMALLER GIRL.

Title	When a girl does not cum.
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