Just venting. Stbxw and I are amicably separating to best of ability and I’ve always solved her problems. I tried for years to get us into counseling, reading books, opening up and she wasn’t into it.

So I pulled trigger and filed

Yesterday she came home after signing for a new house and telling me her problems, how she’s depressed, scared, and moving in 3 weekends from my home as I bought her out. I was quiet and supportive then ignored her for hours and worked. This morning she asked why and I simply had to say I’m her friend but not that friend, I tried and she didn’t care I was miserable. Now she’s seeking understanding from the person who’s causing her current issues / pain and I refuse to feel badly and asked her to share with her girl friends and not ask me to fix her problems for her.

I get we all want acceptance, support, nurturing but we’re not there yet for each other.

Just venting. Not really looking for advice as my path is set and it’s full send but damn…stand on your own feet