Ok guys I’m at a cross roads and can’t sort out the point now. I’m 50 and soon to be divorced. I can date like a champ and many of them are amazing! I’ve a great job and interesting projects but my kids are grown and I feel I should have a thing that’s more then dating or my personal hobbies which I have a ton. But I am missing the “reason” as everything is just coming so easy or maybe it’a because it’s just for my goals or maybe I just want someone with me? My person.

So those that have gone through this and found that “thing” post divorce what was the thing that gave you a reason for the next 35 years or whatever your time line is?

Books are welcome or articles as well if you just feel I should read