Stbx & I agreed to an unconditional divorce in November, where I'd have full custody and she'd get supervised visitation. She has mental health conditions and has attempted suicide 4 times in our 14 years together, most recently this past July. She's a daily marijuana user, as well. I felt since these are issues that would keep me from allowing her unsupervised visitation in her place, wherever that ends up being, that I'd add a clause requiring rehab, outpatient program, and a monthly UA if she ever wants the kids to be with her. She agrees to everything in the divorce, but won't sign the paperwork unless I remove this clause. Our children both have autism, and with her unpredictability and drug use, I just don't feel comfortable letting her keep the kids. She does no parenting whatsoever as it is, and if she is forced to help one of them, she throws a fit over it. My son still needs help cleaning up when he uses the restroom for example, and if she's forced to help all she does is shout at him about how he's old enough to do it on his own and she's tired of it and on and on. She agreed to an uncontested divorce because she admits the kids "trigger" her and she "can't handle taking care of them alone." But I'm thinking about the big picture, in the future where maybe she'd like to have them over. Is it unreasonable to have this clause? Should I add the clause for myself, as well? I've been to rehab, I attend AA and have no issue submitting a UA every month. How can I keep the clause in the paperwork and submit it if she won't sign?