So i have been seeing a trend on Instagram reels saying "women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can". It's mostly women making reels like these. The comments were full on fire.

Men on the other hand came up with a counter and started commenting "Women marry who they can, Men marry who they want" and some creators also started making individual reels on this. So basically men are emphasizing marriage and commitment whereas women are communicating about their power in gatekeeping sex.

On the other hand i see women saying that 'men only want sex, men are only after sex, men are commitment phobic' etc. What do you guys think? Is it a cop out women use to deflect blame?