Did you miss out on thousands of hours of social development as a child / adolescent / teenager? This is the thread for you!

DearCommunication919 · 2023-07-03T04:58:46+00:00

I am too ugly for that to work. I am already a part of many clubs and communities and have been for years, also I play intellectual games like jeopardy every Thursday. I wish fools would stop explaining my life to me.

kukkle1111 · 2023-07-03T05:42:29+00:00

You need thousands of hours of social development.

Bullshit. Chad doesn’t need thousands of hours of anything to get pussy. Also, your temperament and personality are steeped in genetics, thousands of hours of “social development” won’t change a goddamn thing.

You could get those hours up by storming up to women and trying to do sex at them using guides written by massive losers. Or you could join a club, or volounteer, or work in a co-operative environment. You need it though, and there are no shortcuts.

Bullshit. This also proves beyond the shadow of any doubt that you’re the “massive loser” in question who never goes outside. Any gathering place of any sort where single, young women congregate is heavily gatekept and guarded by other men, if not by the women themselves, even churches are like this. Everyone knows what you’re really there for, you’re not fooling anyone.

Oh no! A post is telling you you're not perfect as you are and you need to gain experience! Downvote it!

You don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about and rightfully should be downvoted.

Lovers691 · 2023-07-03T05:27:14+00:00

This will only work in getting you female interest if your problem is social skills and not looks or looks and social skills

SplitWrong5057 · 2023-07-03T09:59:04+00:00

No, I dont need "social development". I need a tall height and a attractive face so that women will find me attractive.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-07-03T14:24:06+00:00

Oh, wait...

this from the same guy who allegedly tells men to "just be yourself"?

Which is it? Do these guys need to "just be themselves"; or do they need "thousands of hours of social development"?

Could you fuckers please make up your minds?

Hyena_Utopia · 2023-07-03T09:00:01+00:00

Being social isnt something you develop, and it isn't a skill. Enjoying the company of other nice people in a group is fun, exciting and pleasant. Enjoying the company of someone truly special feels like velvet & marzipan for the soul.

Im so sick of this idea that everything in life has to be worked towards. There are things in life that are given for free, and your ability to enjoy social gatherings is one of them.

I love talking and listening to others, always have. The things people tell you, if you are willing to truly listen, is both incredible and scary. I believe that anyone who is able to actually listen to others becomes blackpilled, but better of for it.

Its ironic. Ive found people who see human interaction as a performance, a skill to be improved to be less social than others. Theyre not funny, intriguing, spontaneous or deep. Instead their conversations are pedestrian, mundane. I'd much rarher converse with someone who can express themselves effortlessly instead of following a guideline or skillset.

That combined with you being so naively bluepilled gives me the impression youre not nearly as social as you think you are.

Mydragonurdungeon · 2023-07-03T04:58:30+00:00

What is the standard amount of hours in terms of social development

novelgrowth22 · 2023-07-03T11:50:08+00:00

"Just spend thousands of hours bro" i also doubt social skills is that simple anyway. It's all depends on childhood/genetics. If you are not a people person and have negative experience as a child, then you won't be as social. It's no rocket science, really.

ROBYoutube · 2023-07-03T04:47:20+00:00

Oh no! A post is telling you you're not perfect as you are and you need to gain experience! Downvote it!

Thank you for this. I need something to hyper-focus on so I can ignore your point.

Title	Did you miss out on thousands of hours of social development as a child / adolescent / teenager? This is the thread for you!
Author	ROBYoutube
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Comments	48
Date	July 3, 2023 4:43 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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