Portrait of a Not So Nice (NSN) guy

mewbestpokeman · 2023-07-19T18:01:24+00:00

"Nice guy" is a psyop created by w*men so they don't feel guilty about hating unattractive guys. W*men are afraid to say "that guy is a 5'2" ugly ethnic, eww" but it's fair game if they can somehow make it look like the guy has a bad "personality".

ThrowawayCactus6012 · 2023-07-19T13:55:22+00:00

Is there one guy who has all these qualities?

Terms like "nice guy" have been overused and misused so much that they lose their original meaning.

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-07-19T15:10:23+00:00

``considers himself to be an 8/10 because he simply is “not fat”.``

Dont women like confidence?

``defeatist attitude``

You can have this and be a great person.

coolmobilepotato · 2023-07-19T14:14:10+00:00

considers himself to be an 8/10 because he simply is “not fat”.

Ngl, it's probably true if he is a american

kemonovatnik · 2023-07-19T15:30:23+00:00

I swipe to right cute beckies in Tinder, not only stacies, and majority of stacies swipe to left, because see no cultural connection with them

Affinity4186 · 2023-07-19T23:42:13+00:00

has seriously considered passportmaxxing at least once and maybe has been a sex tourist

Ah yes. You can't possibly be a truly nice guy if you want a break from the most brutal dating market on planet earth that heavily penalizes you for things that aren't in your control.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-07-19T13:53:12+00:00

tfw when being a fit late bloomer makes you a bad person, why dont you just admit you re triggered hard by all these sort of different guys and thats why you need to strawman them so hard?

I do agree with some of your points though:

enjoys writing comments like “mid” or “not that attractive” on celebrity and influencer social media posts. Enjoys humbling women.

Yes, someone who does that should grow up and do something better with their time

the rest, stuff like:

if a girl has an ex who mistreated her, he gets jealous that he can’t mistreat her too

blames women for liking Chads despite exclusively wanting an 8/10 18-22 year old Stacy waifu.

considers himself to be an 8/10 because he simply is “not fat”.

I would agree with those points.....if it werent because nobody fucking says that.

In fact most of the self proclaimed nice guys dont say anything of your ramblings, even in subs like r/niceguys you dont see none of the things you re talking about being posted

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-07-19T14:12:28+00:00

I think the big difference is nice guys only do nice things for rewards, they’re not going to Do anything unless it’s going to benefit them either short or long term.

KayRay1994 · 2023-07-19T14:49:38+00:00

its all kinda redundant imo - if you have to call yourself a “nice guy” then you’ve already lost the plot. Nobody should be labeling themselves as “nice” and hot take, being nice is overrated as niceness has little to do with kindness, goodness or being respectful - traits associated with niceness that aren’t involved with goodness, helpfulness or kindness are often associated with things like ass-kissing and spinelessness. Its really just a sugar coated away of saying “spineless milquetoast person who appears to cause no direct trouble”

2023-07-19T18:37:29+00:00

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BufferG108 · 2023-07-19T20:01:18+00:00

Sure. Let's look at each.

I'll mostly reply to the points I disagree with, since you do sadly raise some valid points however, including things women must be careful of to prevent becoming victims or so forth. I couldn't get to everything, such as the weight, passport bro, or virginity issue, but here's some parts I was able to tackle.

is unsuccessful with women most of the time, but can be a guy in his 30’s who didn’t have success until he got older (late bloomer)

If you haven't began by 19, seriously consider chemical castration to reduce your sex drive, as there is no point in any romantic or sexual affairs as a man anymore.

regularly gets angry about “Chads” and their success with dating.

Pointing something out =/= being angry about it. I will point out that 2 + 2 = 4, but that doesn't mean I'm angry about it.

if he is older than 30, he exclusively goes after women ages 18-25. He believes that women his own age view him as a beta bux

Yeah no I agree with you, this is creepy af. However, he's right in knowing that the women his age view him as a betabux. The best solution here is to pay for escorts, escorts your age, btw.

has paid for some form of sex work at least once

Nothing wrong with selling or buying fucking, as either a girl or a guy.

bases his self esteem and views of women on tinder, which is like 70% men

While it's wrong to base your self-esteem on women on tinder, they are one of the best indicators of your SMV and your sexual and romantic worth in the eyes of women.

hates western women

I hope I'm neither a "nice guy" or an NSN either, but I hate all women, period. I don't care if you're from the west, east, middle east, etc, they all make my blood boil the same.

massive contempt for late bloomer women. Believes that they will never be like him since they could have swiped on tinder to have sex early on.

His hatred is right. When they could've easily done such things, how are they at all the same? I respect their choices, but choosing not to eat vs starving are two different worlds that can't be compared. Ergo, choosing not to fuck, and being unable to, are two different worlds that can't be compared.

spends an ungodly amount of time thinking about single moms instead of just rejecting them and moving on

I don't even disagree with you here, this point pisses me off, not because of the single moms, but dudes who are prejudiced against them for no reason. You don't know what happened to her, maybe her husband passed away, maybe he's a total piece of shit and she thankfully won custody, the fuck's wrong with these people???

considers himself to be an 8/10 because he simply is “not fat”.

Have you ever considered agriculture as a profession? The amount of strawmen here leads me to think you'd do well as a farmer. A lot of points in your thing, like being a sex tourist, harassing women on social media, or judging women for their weight (although there is a difference between being larger and unhealthy, and that goes for both sexes), etc, are largely that: Strawmen. Is there a minority that does it? Sure. Do sites like Incels.co, with their perverted leadership, do that? Without question. Is that all sub8s who raise the issue of the blackpill? Fuck no.

Well, that's what I have to say about this. Let me know your thoughts.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-07-20T11:17:26+00:00

Wasn't a late bloomer, had a good amount of women into me from late high-school until now and I'm late 30s.

I don't blame any lack of success on my personality, any lack of success I have is entirely looks based.

Not angry about Chads, just trying to become one

I initially set my age range at 25-34 but noticed a lot of younger women were into me so I dropped it down to 20-32.

I do enjoy humbling women but I'm not delusional, most celeb women are celebs because they're hot.

No man wants a fat or high n partner, this is pretty obvious. If they're with that, then they're settling.

I don't consider myself Chad just because I'm thin, I'm actually realistic with my looks rating and have done photofeeler just to be sure. I typically get 7s in attractiveness on there and I do think I'm a 7 in real life based on the women who are generally into me. This one is ironic because most American women actually think they're 10s... even when overweight.

Portrait of a Not So Nice (NSN) guy

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Title	Portrait of a Not So Nice (NSN) guy
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Date	July 19, 2023 1:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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