When and how did you become blackpilled?

Purple-Home-2347 · 2023-08-09T02:30:03+00:00

Hanging out with attractive guys and women were the most nuclear blackpills to me

DoctorWinchester87 · 2023-08-09T03:00:30+00:00

It was when I got to college. I went to a high school were there weren’t that many super attractive people. I grew up working class and just about everyone I knew was below average looking beyond a few athletes or girl next door types. College was my first time being around upper middle class attractive people. The way they interacted and the sexual tension that existed between attractive college age kids was alien to me. It showed me that attractive guys live a very different life and the Halo effect is 100% real.

I had no romantic engagements in college whatsoever. Not even a date. I knew that it had to be because I was unattractive. I’ve seen no evidence that runs counter to that.

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-08-09T02:46:47+00:00

Online dating was the final nail in the coffin, I somehow “knew” it was true my whole life but couldn’t articulate it or explain it throughly

SedTheeMighty · 2023-08-09T03:37:12+00:00

Approaching women, catfish dating account experiment, never having any women like my photos or anything on social media, women never flirting with me or giving compliments (when I observed other guys have this happen to them).

Overall, just realizing I might be invisible sexually. It’s wild to think about because I genuinely used to think I looked so good that maybe I was intimidating women. A “friend”seriously suggested this as a reason (even though I’m 5’5”)

These “blackpill” guys aren’t making it all up. Trust me.

kukkle1111 · 2023-08-09T03:18:23+00:00

how did you become blackpilled?

Having eyeballs and not having a mental handicap.

swift_salmon · 2023-08-09T07:02:58+00:00

Blackpill was very intuitive, it was something I'd lived my whole life but never had a word for until college. Seeing girls cry when teachers placed their seat next to mine, never being a part of valentines, that iconic disgusted look whenever you try to make female friends... I was like "Oh yeah so that's what that is."

mrduels · 2023-08-09T04:04:24+00:00

Middle school, when I moved to a new school and the first day when I was walking to class, every girl who saw me looked at me with disgust

SadDogOfShiman0 · 2023-08-09T07:47:18+00:00

Started losing hair at 17, knew it was over by then.

Hung out with a Chadlite coworker and saw the way he was treated (not in comparison because I don't talk to females but I saw average looking dudes get nothing).

Chadfishing and BP content.

NefariousNaz · 2023-08-09T08:05:19+00:00

It wasn't any one thing. I became blackpilled over time by my mid-late 20s. I was blue pilled and then red pill curious until then.

The final triggers were from my career blocks in work politics that led me to becoming blackpill. Turns out that working hard and studying don't get you ahead as much as who likes you. Who likes you is largely based on physical features. This also largely transfers over to every aspect of social life including romance.

The other aspect is that I took all the advice that was dispensed about working on yourself and improve your personality to its final conclusion. I became fairly successful. I pulled myself from growing up poor to non-english speaking household to earning 6 Figure income by late 20s/early 30s, millionaire at market heights (a bit down right now), spend free time in clubs and other organizations as well as weekends volunteering helping sick children.

None of that helped at all with American girls. I was still receiving the same brain-dead comments and scraping bottom of the barrel romantically. It did offer me the means to look internationally however. I also noticed that most people's social skills sucked but it wasn't a limiting factor for them due to physical or other characteristics.

When I disclose my background to non-blackpillers the response is usually accusations that it is fabrication. Even some blackpillers call me a larper.

Worried-Ad-5870 · 2023-08-09T09:52:24+00:00

When I noticed that the content of a man's character counted for nothing. I saw some of the worst people imaginable with different women every week. They never went through a period where they had to "improve themselves" or "eradicate their toxic tendencies". What all these men had in common was they were attractive. That's all that matters.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-08-09T12:24:37+00:00

It was when online dating first became popular. I always knew I was above average attractiveness but didn't know the scope I guess? Like I always assumed dating was evenly distributed. 1 woman for 1 man.

Then my friends all got nothing. Literally scraps, the most bottom tier women would only give them attention, a couple of them got legit nothing, no attention at all. I always thought they were just average looking guys too.

The difference in attention I get vs my friends is what blackpilled me. And I'm sure better looking guys get even exponentially more attention than me.

princedune · 2023-08-09T16:33:42+00:00

Once I graduated from college and still no women were willing to interact with me my whole life I knew it was over

AtCloseRange94 · 2023-08-09T17:50:16+00:00

When I started lifting, got a skincare routine, better haircut, better fashion choices. The way I was treated after doing those things was shocking. Attractive people truly live much better lives.

malesareobjects · 2023-08-10T03:47:36+00:00

I became partly blackpilled became when a lot of the women in l my family told me that I was so ugly, that I was lucky to be raped. That was when my self-hatred really started to kick in.

Petrosmine · 2023-08-10T13:00:20+00:00

got laughed at without doing anything throughout middle school and high school

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-08-09T14:14:08+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggm4nUSxtTY&t=110s&pp=ygUXYmxhY2twaWxsIHRpbmRlciBnZXJiZXQ%3D

2drunk2caree · 2023-08-09T16:41:13+00:00

I guess I kinda knew by middle school that I really was never gonna "fit in." It got a little better in high school, I was never bullied in HS, but I was still considered a nerd though. After HS I actually did land a gf for a while, but she cheated and left me. After that I did everything I could to get back out there. Online dating, gym, going to bars and events to meet people. Joined 2 hobby groups. All the normie-tier advice, but it never panned out.

About 2 years ago is when I threw in the towel and embraced the blackpill, but really my life has been leading me in it's direction since lik 6th grade, if not earlier.

Maractop · 2023-08-09T04:26:56+00:00

I didnt really think about it all until middle school when I got rejected specifically for my height. Every other level of school and social media just helped to reinforce it.

Then I seen chadfish videos where the same basic bio and boring messages were used on accounts with a regular guy and a really attractive guy. The women were way more responsive and were even eager to lead conversations. Thats what made realize that it wasnt that I was a bad texter or that I wasnt interesting. It was just that I wasnt attractive enough.

sonyeondanie · 2023-08-09T10:14:27+00:00

I always knew looks matter tbh i though everyone knew

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ItoshiSae10 · 2023-08-09T10:18:01+00:00

Hanging out with my girl friends.

SeaworthinessAdept98 · 2023-08-09T15:32:22+00:00

After a false accusation from a woman.

therealperson123456 · 2023-08-11T12:26:33+00:00

16yo, tried to not be a loner anymore and get some connections, got humiliated a lot, noticed how easy it was for attractive people in my group and how hard it was for the unattractive ones. Some of the attractive ones even had polygamous relationships, lol. I haven't seen a single unattractive person with a girlfriend in my school.

Title	When and how did you become blackpilled?
Author	avocado-afficionado
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Date	August 9, 2023 2:00 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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