My failure with women is leading me to leave earth. Being a man who has NEVER been in any form of physical intimacy with a women is mentally destroying.

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-08-22T10:46:34+00:00

I have been thinking about suicide on the daily but I am not brave enough to go thru with it

ar_menelos · 2023-08-22T04:19:51+00:00

idk M8.

Early on in my life I learned not to give a shit about the opinions of other people, including women and have mostly kept to myself.

Normal people sicken me tbh. I'm not going to let their room temp IQ standards dictate how I feel. Oh wow I haven't stuck my dick in a stinky hole that discharges copious amounts of mucus and blood on the regular, so what?

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-08-22T14:25:54+00:00

I hope you don’t leave us, but I also definitely understand that the pain can be overwhelming. It’s not fair that some of us have to endure this. I wish you didn’t.

You mentioned that you’ve tried hobbies, but do you have any good friends? I also found that hobbies did nothing to relieve the loneliness, but I think that the different types of loneliness are connected. Getting a good male friend won’t fill the romantic hole in your heart, but at least for me, it did make being a permavirgin a little more bearable. It can definitely still be really hard to find platonic friends too, but at least guys won’t decline to be your friend because you’re too short.

SpezGaveMeNudes · 2023-08-22T13:46:34+00:00

The world (or Western society rather) is a very cruel place to men today who suffer with inceldom. I have no idea why

I can't offer anything helpful to say but I hope these times pass for you

Dumboddball · 2023-08-22T16:41:52+00:00

I feel this too.

But we should keep coping. I know it’s soul crushing.

But there are so many copes to enjoy.

And not giving our enemies the joy.

lovestocomment · 2023-08-22T19:14:40+00:00

How do you approach? When do you approach? Looks wise are you fit, average, overweight or obese? Are average looking or ugly? What's your finances looking like? What have you learned from your encounters? Do you have female friends? How do you take rejection?

Failure rate for average and below average men are pretty high. Even the most successful dudes have been through it. Women do not approach dating the same way us men do. They take way more into consideration. Shit even their moods have to be right lol.

This might sound counter productive. But Pay for the companionship... Seriously. I get that it's not a meaningful relationship because that's what's more important. But no sex can drive most folks up the wall. Personally I never paid, but I have friends who have done it in the past when they get to a certain point. Just always strap up. Buy your own condoms. And Be respectful

Also, having female friends (women you wouldn't bang) ask them about their dating experience. Don't ask for advice. Just let them tell you what they have been through and learn from other guys mistakes. For all you know you're making those mistakes.

lostatlifecoach · 2023-08-22T03:51:21+00:00

Let's talk about this bruh. Everyone has a low point. Even if I can't help you with girls maybe I can be a friend.

What do you do for a living?

Obsidian_Koilz · 2023-08-22T09:34:15+00:00

Have you spent any significant amount of time outside of the community you grew up in? Spent time in a different state or took a cruise?

Many times, both men and women have trouble finding a match in their area. I'm asking in good faith because sometimes we (all of us) get stuck in communities where we are abjectly miserable.

BufferG108 · 2023-08-22T04:25:24+00:00

Listen, unless you're 30 or above (in which case, you should, regardless of body count),

There's more to life than women and sex. Will you be a permavirgin? I guarantee it! Is there more to life than that? Yes!

Don't give up bro, you can still do so much more with the 10 or less years you still have in life.

uselessloner123 · 2023-08-22T13:10:14+00:00

Do you have any chance of moving to a new city?

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-08-22T05:13:28+00:00

Maybe you need to fix the reasons you are getting all these rejections in the first place.

SilentCardiologistXX · 2023-08-22T03:50:49+00:00

You know you can pay for escort.

Existing_Group_5372 · 2023-08-22T05:24:06+00:00

Just pay and rent a girlfriend

Edit : if you're below average genetically don't expect women to settle for you

ajfoucault · 2023-08-22T16:48:45+00:00

I understand your perspective. But you are thinking of a permanent "solution" for what seems to be a temporary problem. How old are you?

muh245 · 2023-08-22T17:59:25+00:00

How old are you brother, care to give us some stats: height, weight, lifts at the gym, ethnicity, etc

SnoopyTheDog_ · 2023-08-22T18:16:16+00:00

Don't let society win my friend. Focus on different goals in life, there isn't someone for everyone

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-08-22T18:20:34+00:00

I recommend the same thing to every man who is gonna kill them selves because of loneliness.

Take steroids and work out. You can get abs in 3 months depending on where you start from. Although not the ideal option, if your gonna kill yourself might aswell do it.

AvgRedditUser12 · 2023-08-22T21:59:41+00:00

Hope and Cope or Rope that's the choice we have been handed

I'm sorry about your situation, maybe stick around you might get a lucky break but if you don't want to that is understandable, just be sure you want to go ahead b/c you don't want your last thoughts to be regret

Connect_Yoghurt_4764 · 2023-08-25T13:50:37+00:00

Wouldn't reducing your libido help? https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-decrease-libido

Title	My failure with women is leading me to leave earth. Being a man who has NEVER been in any form of physical intimacy with a women is mentally destroying.
Author	SheepyTLDR
Upvotes	21
Comments	38
Date	August 22, 2023 3:48 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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