I'm a woman, a wife and mother of 2 boys. I have both friends of both sexes, I also read online forums ect. I've noticed that women (not all women of course) have high expectations of men and desirable or essential traits and attributes of men.

For example tall, good looking, earning lots of money, employed, car driver, emotionally open,.but not too much otherwise the woman will get the ick, good in bed, had to be the one to propose, proposal has to be romantic, ring expensive, has to do 50% housework/ childcare even if his partner is a stay at home parent, provide for the family, protect the family, be drafted into war, fight to the death, do dangerous and smelly jobs, stem roles, create, make, invent, build in all weathers, conditions and be paid well for it, but women are the ones who are the victims of the patriarchy.

Meanwhile women don't want their weight to be mentioned, and use filters, make up ect to appear more attractive, they want to cherry pick what rights and privileges they get without any of the hard work. They receive preferential treatment, reduced sentences for the same crime, there's very little support for male victims of domestic violence, despite making up 45% of all victims.

Marriage....80% of all divorce initiated by women, she'll get 50% of all assets including (potentially) future earnings and pensions...

If you read posts on Mumsnet, it's more or less constant venting about men, how useless they are, how stupid, lazy ect.

I remember once there was research that showed women were surviving breast cancer more due to increased funding, but that men, weren't suriving prostate cancer for the same reasons, but the celebration and the distain shown was awful. Men get treated like dirt