Me 37m and my wife 31 F had a huge blow out fight because a girl that I’ve been in contact with 2 times over 3 years since we stayed dating called me from a random number because I have her blocked on all social media and her phone. She called me from a random number asking if I could find any blue percocets. I had lost two friends in the last year from fentanyl, and my wife just told me about a client of hers son had just died because he thought he was taking a blue percocet and it was filled with fentanyl and he died. When she called me from this random number I told her I didn’t know anyone as I’m a recovering addict and don’t do opiates. I erased the number, but then stated to worry that she may not know that it’s all fentanyl and so I downloaded Snapchat (which me and my wife currently) both deleted it because we knew there was no reason for either of us to have it. So I messaged her on Snapchat saying to message me on here as that was the only I could get possibly get a hold of her. She never replied but the next morning my wife saw a Snapchat notification and saw that I reached out to her. It was about two hours later after she called that tried messaging her to tell her that she’s prob getting fentanyl and so many people I’ve known have OD’d and died. I had lied about talking to this girl and got caught both times. It the first time was the first month in our relationship and the second time was about a year ago. The first time she said she wanted to give me oral sex, and I said that would be amazing. Nothing ever happened physically, but her boyfriend sent the text messages to my girlfriend at the time. (I also has smoked meth with her). The second time I was trying to to get GHB as I’d never tried it, snd I got it from her friend. They texted me to to come over and hang out and I didn’t reply but again her on/off bf sent the texts to my girlfriend. This last time I was honest to god just trying to warn her that she’s gonna get fentanyl and I didn’t want her to OD. Yes it was stupid, snd because of this my wife is trying to get annulment. I don’t think there’s any way she can but she says she still wants us to be together and if I show her I’m not that same guy we can get back together. This was strike three on my part. Do you guys think she’s over reacting or is our is our marriage over? Sorry for any bad spelling, my phone is really messed up. It’s been about 3 weeks since tbid happened and i went and got all my stuff from her condo today. I’m clearly a wreck and I’ve been sober for almost 6 months. I’m doing my best to give her space. But do you think she really wants to stay together? Or just saying that so I will agree to annulment? The other girl is gross and she’s only physically given me oral before me and my wife started dating. Any hope I can win her back??