Seriously I’m only new to this and it’s all so mentally draining. The constant talk about evolution and biology, the labeling of human beings as “low mate value” or having “low quality genes” that gets “ridden of from the gene pool by women denying them reproduction”, the paranoia about being cheated on or dumped by someone who will leave you for a “mate with superior genes” is all soul crushing and sounds a lot like eugenics. The blackpill feels like a personal attack that you’re worthless and undesirable if you’re an unattractive man (unless you go to drastic lengths to enhance your appearance) until you’re sucked of all hope. I hope it’s just a distortion of reality but then I look around and see TikToks, social media posts, real-life experiences, and (bitter?) women who agree and it’s even more depressing. Even biologists refer to some males looking for female partners as “low genetic quality”. Some feminists concur and say our fathers only reproduced because of the patriarchy imposing monogamy or forcing women to be dependent on men or whatever. Add more genetic determinism that you find on blackpill forums like racial differences or IQ differences and all hope you have dwindles over time.

I see a lot of mentally ill homeless men wandering around alone where I live. Are these people just supposed to be doomed to that fate with no stable family life or wife and children because they were born with “low quality genes”??

The redpill sounds marginally less depressing but it’s not great. Now there are things you can do, but at what price? The redpill constantly feeds you anxiety on how every aspect of your behavior will reduce your attractiveness to women who are always on the verge of leaving you, forcing you to create this dishonest and inauthentic version of yourself that you don’t know will even get you anywhere because the redpill still has a huge overlap with the blackpill on science. But what can I say? They have studies on everything, studies showing women prefer stoic men who downplay their emotions, studies showing many women admit to having backup options, studies showing many women use men for free meals etc

If either or both of these are correct then what’s the point of trying in life? If your entire value as a man is determined by your genes and is always inferior to another man’s unless you do risky surgeries then I don’t see any point in participating in society.. like I don’t even understand why western society stigmatized eugenics anymore.