Can ugly men be friends with women?

NumerousTheory5735 · 2023-11-06T02:40:31+00:00

The real question is why would you want to be friends with a women? Serious question. Is it just because they're a women or because you're trying to go down the path of upgrading a friendship to a relationship?

Other than that, probably not. Most women are socially hyper aware and don't want ugly dudes around them as friends. Even the really religious ones who act nice 24/7. If anything, they'll keep you around out of pity. I've seen way too many orbiters go down this path tbh

kukkle1111 · 2023-11-06T02:51:50+00:00

No. You need to pass the looks threshold to be part of a woman’s social life in any way, shape, or form.

It’s not a coincidence that all those “guy friends” she has and tells her beta boyfriend/husband not to worry about are all good looking.

As far as a woman saying “Let’s be friends” after she rejects you, she doesn’t actually want to be platonic with you. She’s hoping you take the hint and disappear.

ApprehensiveMusic351 · 2023-11-06T05:59:38+00:00

There are only two reasons why a woman wants a guy in her life in any capacity, either because he's hot or he's useful.

What's happening more and more nowadays is that the only way to be useful to a woman is to be hot.

Poopeepoopee96 · 2023-11-06T03:11:05+00:00

It never goes well

Soewp1234 · 2023-11-06T03:37:16+00:00

no women hate ugly men

OrganicAstronaut6661 · 2023-11-06T03:47:34+00:00

mrduels · 2023-11-06T04:00:02+00:00

Be friends with someone who hates me? Rather not tbh

Relative_Editor_2179 · 2023-11-06T06:37:38+00:00

It’s not going to end well, I advise against it

Eyesofmalice · 2023-11-06T11:22:38+00:00

I think it’s possible, I’ve had female friends before. I think untimely y my loneliness makes me so bitter and cynical that I’m no fun to be around. But I don’t necessarily think all relationships with women lead to developing feelings for them.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-11-06T22:03:21+00:00

Honestly, it doesn't happen a lot. But it does happen. Most women I know have at least one male friend I would consider distinctly less attractive than the rest of the friend group. However, most women I know well enough to know this about them in the first place are, themselves, quite attractive and kind and cool--that's why I was interested in knowing them in the first place. I don't really know about the social lives of average women.

MrBrittle · 2023-11-06T23:07:08+00:00

It depends.

If he's really ugly, women tend to see him as a scary pervert. So that he will also be rejected as a friend, she also won't like being seen with them, as it is socially a negative point. There are very few women who don't care about this. Friendzone is for average guys not truecels.

However, if he is just a little ugly, and has a very good personality, then the chances of having female friendships increase.

However I 1000x prefer male friendships, and I would avoid friendships with women, especially if I was really ugly.

AlternativeFood8820 · 2023-11-07T18:02:32+00:00

I never had a female friend

so I would say no

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-11-06T09:34:58+00:00

Yes, of course they can,

most people actually do this. Although they don’t label the guy as “ugly” it’s just a matter of no spark there romantically but still a cool fun guy that’s fun to hang out with and typically this is how much friends groups grow and then as it gets bigger and more people come into it, relationships start to pair off

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2023-11-06T10:57:41+00:00

I've got lots of male friends, of all shapes, sizes sexualities etc. Of course they can be!

Aromatic_Ad5473 · 2023-11-06T19:06:17+00:00

Of course they can. Men and women are actual friends IRL much to the disbelief of many men in this sub.

DurtyDanky · 2023-11-06T15:09:06+00:00

Yes you can be friends with women but are the men in here so misogynistic, deluded, pathetic, and downright show why women wouldn't want them in the first place?

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-11-06T21:12:53+00:00

I'm an ugly guy but still friends with women. We want nothing from each other and keep things strictly platonic.

ArtifactFan65 · 2023-11-07T11:49:37+00:00

It's possible as long as you're funny and have good social skills, it gets much harder the less attractive you are though.

Title	Can ugly men be friends with women?
Author	ClothesOnInTheDark
Upvotes	5
Comments	50
Date	November 6, 2023 2:33 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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