change my mind: If women find you unattractive and repulsed by you, it means that you're a genetically selected loser.

Impressive-Pen-2958 · 2023-11-08T07:36:41+00:00

This only works if you take success with women as a reflection of your value , and I don’t think that’s the case

Exciting-Salary-8344 · 2023-11-08T08:07:46+00:00

Well... you are right... But... at the end of the day... Who gives a shit?

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-11-08T08:22:39+00:00

If a woman finds you repulsive, then who the fuck cares what she thinks? Move on, life is more than what one person thinks of you

Impressive-Pen-2958 · 2023-11-08T08:09:32+00:00

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ROBYoutube · 2023-11-08T07:37:10+00:00

Incorrect. Women see piles of literal shit in the street and just keep walking. They don't care how ugly you are. If you're good looking you're as appealing as a tasteful and aesthetic plant if she doesn't know you. Some things look good. Other things look less good. No one gives a single solitary fuck about anyone who isn't themselves or their immediate friends and family.

Secondly, define 'loser'. Because in all the ways I would define it, none of it are gifted to me by others approval about the way I look so I need help in order to properly answer.

Personally the only person I would consider a loser is someone who is a societal net negative. So they'd need to do nothing and be loved by no one, both things can be achieved while being as comically ugly as you like.

RopeorDope1 · 2023-11-08T08:16:28+00:00

Unattractive and repulsed aren't necessarily the same. Someone rejecting you doesn't mean it goes as far as being repulsed by you.

As for the genetically selected loser line, I think everyone has the capacity to be more than their biology and find other meaning. You might be falling into the naturalistic fallacy. Something being natural doesn't mean it's automatically good or it's needed. Think of examples like vaccines, medicine or electricity.

fancy_leftovers · 2023-11-08T18:43:19+00:00

If we are speaking purely on the terms of genetic selection, so continuing a lineage of genes, then my first argument is that you don't have to be attractive to donate your sperm.

Also, what about attractive people who are not interested in reproducing? Are they now self selected losers?

And also, remember, if you're ugly, most likely a whole string of ugly people fucked to bring you here.

So, taking all that into account, I don't think it means you're a "genetically selected" loser.

Few-Horror7281 · 2023-11-08T21:01:31+00:00

I am married with children, but it does not mean that

I am not repulsive
I am not a loser

In fact, I am more of a loser as I chose to procreate.

Medium_Listen_9004 · 2023-11-09T06:48:53+00:00

Women can have toxic and fk'd up worldviews and ideologies too

Title	change my mind: If women find you unattractive and repulsed by you, it means that you're a genetically selected loser.
Author	Groundbreaking-Gap20
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Date	November 8, 2023 7:28 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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