For those who may remember my previous posts: summary is I received some really vague feedback about demonstrating "gender bias" without being able to provide me a single example. There was one staff who brought up the 'fortune cookie' story where I shared that my family adds "in bed" to the fortunes. I met informally with HR and her feedback was that I can be "too confident" and come across as "cocky" (those close to me have no idea why she would say that cuz I really don't like cockiness). Finally, my CEO gave me one more example, saying I have been heard responding "Yeah, that reminds me of an ex girlfriend/wife". This collection of absolutely vague claims has left me angry, confused, and totally paranoid. As I said before, I am happy to reflect on unintended consequences, but this type of bullshit has NOTHING to do with me displaying "gender bias." The more I stew on this, the more I feel the gender bias is against me within a female dominated profession. Turn the comments around to a female and we would have a serious issue on our hands. This world has gone to pot. I have started to look for another job as I cannot be genuine here.