I'm 24F and been following the rpw since a couple of weeks now. It helps that I sort of immediately resonated with most of the ideas and realized where I come up short too. I'm currently in hard nun mode too as I'm obese, recently recovering from childhood trauma and need to find hobbies/friends etc.

It so happens that I work in a software engineering field with a lot of such high value provider males in my office. While before I bemoaned the fact that there weren't any women on my floor to be friends with - I started viewing it differently and now I actually am happy to be surrounded by such men because I can easily learn from their lives with their wives and partners and what they look for generally, I can also see how ever since I started tapping more into my feminine energy from my predisposed masculine engineering energy I can sense them being more courteous and chivalrous with me unlike in engineering school where most male classmates disliked me and I had a series of feminine men relationships instead

Its just that most of these provider men at my workplace seem obsessed with trekking and hiking and camp trips. Up until now I've never really been able to travel since I come from a lower middle class background and was busy paying off student debt. I would love to travel someday though but when I imagine vacations I think of pleasurable ones like beaches or pretty islands or romantic cities not wilderness and forests ugh

Am I wrong in thinking the latter just feels too masculine? For a feminine woman to enjoy? How do I go about attracting men who are high value and wouldn't dismiss me for not enjoying similar excursions? I worry about dismissal because theres a guy I like very very much and though he won't admit it probably cos I'm fat I know he is rather emotionally attached to me too and often asks me questions about my life but he seemed rather disappointed when I didn't react favourably to his hike in the wilderness that brought him great joy apparently

I'm really confused and would love to know how other rpw women have handled relationships with similar men or even have any recommendations for shared hobbies etc