I’ve been with this woman for a little short of 10 years 8 years married. My life basically revolves around her. I moved from our home country to be with her in a foreign country for 6 years now. Before leaving our country I was not working but I was making money doing of jobs and doing a small business we started together. Since living in this country I haven’t been able to work because I don’t hav the qualifications to work here as I flunked out of high school and still don’t have my degree (currently in school getting my bachelors). Now I’m a few months she wants to leave this country and go back to our home country but after being here for so long with little to nothing to show for it it is extremely hard returning home. She painted a picture that life would’ve been better here for me if I was here with her and work was guaranteed or at least me opening a business was here which was far from the truth. After almost 5 years here I just managed to save my first 10,000 last November working illegally. Our home country is expensive and she has gotten use to a flamboyant lifestyle which I sometimes have to foot. Vacations luxury gifts etc and going back home I know I will not be able to afford such things with the pay I’ll be making there. She already have 2 degrees I am just trying to complete my last set of courses to get my first. She is also pressuring me into a child which to be honest we can’t afford. I really don’t know what to do I am thinking about staying in the country after my degree and getting a job as this would pay more than going back home getting payed peas but I know she’s not going to stay here in this country with me cause she hates it. I feel like my life isn’t important in this marriage and it’s all about her and I just follow her so she can achieve what she needs to while I sit by the wayside just existing. Essentially I feel like I am the wife