How to get over being rejected by a girl I thought was in my league

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-09-24T23:29:48+00:00

You can be in her league and still be rejected because it’s not about leagues.

The_MoBiz · 2022-09-24T20:38:32+00:00

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001010011101 · 2022-09-25T02:59:34+00:00

Life's for a man is about rejection. It happens dude. You have to grow calloused to it.

creativedave73 · 2022-09-25T02:13:32+00:00

Move onto other women! That's how you get over rejection. The problem when we're first starting out dating, is we focus all our energy on one woman and when we get rejected it's the end of the world!

Think about all of the hot, single women out there and how they could be potential gfs. Most of them are probably better than the woman who rejected you.

You just need confidence and learn how to attract women.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-09-24T20:24:10+00:00

Stop thinking in terms of "leagues". It's never that simple and nobody is ever going to be a "sure thing".

You just have to learn not to take it personally and keep putting yourself back out there.

Congrats on the approach, by the way! Now go do another!

big_nose_juicer · 2022-09-25T00:02:01+00:00

someone can be in your league, but not be attracted to you because she likes a different type.

zapadz · 2022-09-24T22:18:46+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHfAMh6Edm4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4

http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU1Rp184IT4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsyP80BydV4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7L2MzmE8cwo

Nikos-XXII · 2022-09-24T23:41:49+00:00

Damn bro that sucks, I remember being in an exact same situation as you and it took me several months to get over it, hope this will not be the case for you

immrdadguy · 2022-09-24T20:10:04+00:00

Work out or go make money

2022-09-24T21:38:23+00:00

Next time lower your expectations. Pick a girl that you think is below your league and ask her out.

staggerlee718nyc · 2022-09-24T23:18:08+00:00

You can never get rejected if you walk up to a woman to find out if she is interesting to you.

livideconomistt · 2022-09-24T23:33:30+00:00

Have fun, dont take it too serious

Ok_Age_1494 · 2022-09-25T04:55:40+00:00

We are in the same boat just keep going dont stuck

Plane_Reflection6053 · 2022-09-25T05:15:28+00:00

Move on and start talking to more girls.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-09-25T07:31:13+00:00

Bro come on! You are basically playing a video game set on the hardest setting. You just got killed by the first mob. You really gonna sit there feeling defeated? You gotta keep leveling up. Makes sense?

2022-09-25T08:25:21+00:00

Maybe she was in your league, but she didn't feel the vibe for pickup at that moment or she was not reactive to your type of attractiveness. Take a walk and look at every girl you pass, if she would be your instant turn on if she would come and talk with you.

Mean_Perspective9587 · 2022-09-25T09:45:19+00:00

Talk to a new girl

2022-09-25T16:32:35+00:00

You have to grow a thick skin to it, that's all you can really do.

CautiousSea4815 · 2022-09-25T18:49:49+00:00

Talk to one of her friends.

Nullroute127 · 2022-09-25T19:20:53+00:00

The only long term cure for rejection is abundance. The belief and knowledge that anyone who rejects you lost out on an opportunity, you pity them. This coincides with the confidence that they are replaceable.

The problem is your brain won't let you believe this until it's demonstrably true over a period of time over numerous instances. To some degree 'fake it till you make it' is required in the earliest of stages. However, this only works if you're actually progressing to being the man you know you could be. In other words, you're drawing a debt on your future self that you MUST pay back; but you can spend that value now.

cryptosis420 · 2022-09-25T19:25:58+00:00

You learn from it, move on, and approach more women. The man who gets rejected gets laid. Thats like trying to learn to surf or skate without ever wiping out... Not gunna happen.

Title	How to get over being rejected by a girl I thought was in my league
Author	Specialist_Heat6001
Upvotes	2
Comments	35
Date	September 24, 2022 7:59 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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