What’s your strategy when you’re trying to arrange a date but your schedule just doesn’t align with someone’s else’s?

boxmail2800 · 2022-09-22T05:54:18+00:00

A quick anything? Coffee? Lunch? 20 minutes- just to say you’re making the effort?

beywill19 · 2022-09-22T06:09:32+00:00

Face Time or regular calls are good, keeps things interesting for a while if you can’t meet up .

Flipping_Everything · 2022-09-22T09:27:43+00:00

I have never liked the excuse "I'm busy and I can't see you right now" there are 16 hours in the day ( sleep for 8 hours ) that means if you work 10-12 hours a day, you still have 4-6 hours of "free" time to meet.

In my experience if a woman wants to meet you, she will make the time. If she can't see you on the day you suggested she will give you an alternative date " I can't see you on Monday, how about Wednesday at 7 ".

The example I always give is, let's say that Chris Hemsworth texted that girl that says she's to busy to see you, do you think she would make time for Chris Hemsworth ? Of course she would, she would break plans and do what ever she needed to do to spend time with him.

You want to deal with women who want to make time for you, I've had women that have get up a 5 am in the morning to go to work and it's 1 am in the morning and she is up spending time with me, these are the women you want to deal with not the one that don't try and make time for you.

montanalombardy · 2022-09-22T09:39:34+00:00

Being exhausted/tired is no excuse to skip a date imo. Of you are too tired to meet someone, you don't like them enough.

So, do workday dates after work if you can.

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-09-22T15:05:07+00:00

4k 120hz is the sweet spot for gaming. Because often you can play at 1080p 120hz on the titles your gpu cant handle 4k.

1440p 120hz is probably better than 4k 60hz for most games.

Anything above 120hz is mostly marketing gimmick, unless we are talking professional e-sports, but then again these guys play ultra low settings 720p vsync off.

If you really wanna brag about refresh rate, 1440 240hz IS the only upgrade i would consider for a 1440120hz monitor.

Nefertiti2021 · 2022-09-22T14:13:24+00:00

Exhausted/Tired? You are a pussy bro

2022-09-22T12:48:29+00:00

say you're busy and give a later date... plus it indirectly shows u have a life n are not simping licking her heels

always best to have a date when not much else on your mind and you got a few hours.. the first dates too short may lead to disaster or horny unsatisfiied people

vin9889 · 2022-09-22T15:56:52+00:00

I go do something in their area and allow them to join.

People make time for what they want.

I usually get ballsy and try to put a location people really like going to, then inviting 2-5 of people. If more than one show I let them know I left and I can meet up another time/ at my place. Depends on the situation but rarely more than 2 show/ want to hangout

Contango6969 · 2022-09-22T16:01:01+00:00

Idk. I won’t schedule anything farther away than “this weekend”. She’s going to have to figure something out if she wants to hang out with me

No-Platform-2184 · 2022-09-22T19:07:54+00:00

What’s wrong with a work night? All my first dates are in work nights. Less pressure, plenty of legit excuses to end it at any time. Perfect for just grabbing a drink or two with expectations.

Title	What’s your strategy when you’re trying to arrange a date but your schedule just doesn’t align with someone’s else’s?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	18
Comments	17
Date	September 22, 2022 5:53 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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