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[–]prozerman 50 points51 points52 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No more porn bro, will just continue to desensitise you, and also continue to corrupt your view on women , so when you get the real deal , your performance will be hindered
[–]incognito3107 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True, get your foreplay naturally.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's anxiety. You'll get over it the more you experience you get.
[–]Initial-Laugh1442 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Quit porn, only have sex with girls and exercise regularly. No alcohol, no cigarettes.
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[–]FaithInStrangers94 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t bother with pre workout at all
If you can’t muster the energy naturally you probably shouldn’t be going that hard anyway
Meanwhile I have to take amphetamines for my adhd and they really fuck things up
[–]Tannerite2 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're probably anxious. Calm down and just enjoy things; don't get in your own head thinking too much about whether she's enjoying it or what she thinks of you. That doesn't mean you should ignore her pleasure, but realize that it's not all about her.
Also, quit porn.
[–]Plenty_Software4415 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s porn. & a lot of masturbating. A part of it is anxiety tho but yeah, mainly porn and jerking
[–]Blue_eyes_1983 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Try guys
[–]LightningFire5 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LMAO
[–]aanish6721 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
7th c to come up How's your Sunday been c6z
[–]Bingo_is_the_man 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
L-citrulline works wonders
[–]hookedonfonicsmunky 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
try guys hahaha but in all seriousness stop beating him to death hahahah
[–]MBTHVSK 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are letting someone in a very private space, and have to see it as a social situation with various intimidating qualities. You are very used to not having a person do things with you in that way. Remember you are starting something new and there are sensual parts of you that will be revealed in ways jerking off will not.
[–]ChristianJ105 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Had the same issue last time, but I mean I was absolutely tired, drunk, and I had masurbated previously, so just got rid of any of those things and keep ur body up :)
[–]Master_Parasyte 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you have a female friend (just ask if you two are really intimate or if she is open mind about sex) that can help you, you can try and she can make you feel more comfortable. rn I'm medicated and it's difficult for me to get hard, and if I get hard I can't get to climax, my partner tries helping with a bj or hj, I felt anxiety and that makes it +difficult, we've talked and now I'm ok with that
[–]Healthy-Round-6204 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What medication are you on if I may ask, as I am also medicated and face a similar issue
[–]Master_Parasyte 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sertraline, it's an antidepressant, my doctor said that I should try taking half pill, and that I could get used to the med
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reduce porn usage.
Start using fleshlight.
Check your testosterone levels.
Discuss viagra/cialis with a doc.
[–]zapadz -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QKN8_v9cbOs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY&vl=en
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9Qkf6l74jg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KG2HACKbFu8&t=28m0s
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Viagra
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please don’t medicate yourself before going to a doctor.
[–]Beansnmilk 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro try to lay off mastrubating gradually until you quit and DEFINITELY quit porn, you can say your dick is desensitize to "regular" stuff so lay off and you'll be good
[–]SnooMacarons6242 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too much porn n masterbation, quit porn completely, go exercise or something .
[–]damiandarko2 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this whole sub is just a bunch of virgins and porn addicts
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