Let's say you're interested in a woman, but she has a few men she is talking to and interested in, and you definitely don't want to her "second choice" although at this point she is merely talking to a few guys and hasn't made a decision to sleep with any of the guys yet as she is cautious about prematurely entering relationships.

What would be your plan of action?

  • Would you be turned off by the fact that a woman has several men who are interested in her? and then decide not to pursue her?
  • Would you try to actively sabotage the other men who are interested in her so that they could be put off by her?
  • Would you try to win her over?

BTW, the woman whom I know tends to be very devoted when she's in a relationship, has never cheated on any of her previous partners, and is a creative and ambitious person. She also tends to be private and not social media obsessed but only has a few close friends and for some reason, lots of women tend to be jealous of her just by her sheer presence alone.

Would you choose not to pursue this woman if you knew she had many men who were pursing her? (She has not slept with any of them yet as she is very cautious about entering a sexual relationship with men in general or getting into a commitment before seriously considering all angles)