Is Mode One/direct approach legit, considering buying the book.

earsurgery9 · 2022-08-08T11:05:38+00:00

community has always been split between direct and indirect basically. In the old days coaches used to have full on arguments about it on seduction forums

Direct people said 'she knows why you're talking to her. Girls aren't retarded. You're showing confidence (which is attractive) by not hiding your intent and being direct. And you are also saving yourself from wasting time'

Indirect people said 'Direct will only work if you are her type. Direct isn't even game. You need to be indirect. Then build attraction with pushpull lines etc and then once she starts chasing you, THEN you can show your own intent'

I tried both for many years. There's an old saying in the community that over a long enough time line, all pickup guys become 'direct' and that's probably somewhat true in my case, too. I used to be all indirect, and try to MAKE a girl who wasn't attracted to me attracted. It doesn't work i'm afraid. All PUA, even the 'best' are honestly banging the 'yes girls'. Girls who were attracted at 'hi', basically. And it was the same for me. All of the girls I banged were girls who were clearly receptive to me open. Ain't nobody going up too a girl who isn't at all into him, and then turning that rejection around with pushpull lines and DHV stories and stuff. It's a pipe dream. Even infields confirm this. Watch closely lol. If you're not her type and she's not attracted to you, she doesn't care about your game lol. She might think 'this guy is funny and confident and has charisma blablabla' but she would still be sick at the thought of kissing you haha. You can't negotiate attraction

So with that in mind, direct certainly makes more sense and is fine (although i tend to mix it up simply due to environement. Direct in certain situations is not always wise). Think of game like tinder but in person. Approach, show your intent, and find out of she's into you or not. If not, onto the next girl. If she is, escalate

Aonghus_Radner · 2022-08-08T04:32:58+00:00

Reading is for losers just do it and experience it yourself. Then you can write about it and make a book to sell losers later.

Going_to_hell123 · 2022-08-08T06:42:42+00:00

If you're interested in reading it, there's a post I wrote about how you should approach the game and books about pickup.

https://www.reddit.com/user/Going_to_hell123/comments/wjiayj/why_you_might_be_approaching_game_the_wrong_way/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

koseabjitt · 2022-08-08T12:14:27+00:00

are you getting laid & approaching girls right now on a regular basis? do you have any approach anxiety?

Alan roger & david X methods are only for men who are doing crazy shit on a regular basis . loads of approaches , rejections & sex becuz going up to a female and say " hey , i noticed you're walking with the most beautiful ass i've ever seen , you have no idea how hard i wanna fuck it." is not what beginners can/will do.

Title	Is Mode One/direct approach legit, considering buying the book.
Author	victorhugogime
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Date	August 8, 2022 4:05 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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