Deep talk with girls

Front-Lunch9988 · 2022-07-29T02:55:55+00:00

Just start with something simple and not deep like a story and then slowly as deeper and deeper transition questions like if they went to college ask about something relating to college then you can ask about major and why she picked it, did she always want to pick that, relate something with her answer to continuing something in future… Or like with travel, you could tell a cute story about traveling in a relevant conversation small or big and then ask about. Similar trip they might have had, then trips they could want to take, why they would want to go there, who they would want to go with

Neo-Rio · 2022-07-29T07:59:10+00:00

This is actually a good question for once on this subreddit.

Some girls will talk, and some will stay quiet. Some might actually give some back and forth with you.

Ideally you want to be able to talk so you can steer the conversation. If you get a chance to talk, you should attempt to talk about her dreams, desires, and what it's like when she's with a man who turns her on so completely, that she pictures this guy in her mind in all sorts of different... ways... etc.

OK, so asking her about her deepest and darkest desires draws a blank. What do you do? Well, in this case, you can start TELLING her what's going to happen when she begins to FEEL a powerful sense of fascination, anticipation, curiousity, with a man. And then you describe what her body is going to FEEL when that happens. See if she bites there.

Then there are women who just don't shut up. That's OK too, and in that case, listen to what she says and what her key words are when you talk about her dreams, desires, and fantasies. Steer her into describing the processes that she visualises and feels in her body about what makes her feel this powerful attraction and fascination. Then she'll basically seduce herself.

The only women who is really hard to seduce is the one who is determined that she is going to control the conversation, and rudely ensure that you can't get a word in - and is going to prattle on about nonsense and stuff that doesn't help her be seduced. That's your clue to quit the date.

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-07-29T08:53:00+00:00

Practice, practice, practice,

With cashier, with waitress, just strike up a conversation.

canoodlebug · 2022-07-30T11:00:04+00:00

If you are an interesting person, you will attract interesting people. I’d make sure you have a lot of neat things to talk about, and if she’s into any it, she’ll quickly open up and add to the conversation .

I personally have a lot of hobbies, passions, and strong opinions. But when I’m talking to someone and they are just… a bad conversation partner, it’s so hard to muster up the energy to be excited about anything. Especially if their questions just feel like an excuse to keep talking and not genuine curiosity.

Also, where are you looking for women? Are you casually dating/looking for one night stands? Or are you dating seriously? Because people looking for a ONS are probably far less interested in deep conversations, since they’re not looking for an emotional connection. Just something to consider.

montanalombardy · 2022-07-29T09:10:09+00:00

Eh I think most people are just not that open to talking about that stuff unless they really know you. Or they are not always in the mood for talking deep topics.

Talk about easier things like movies or where you have traveled.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-29T04:18:53+00:00

When the dating experts explain that women are attracted to men that polarize the room it's because they are letting the male set the tone and the depth on what to talk about. You should probably talk about something deep, or beyond the mundane, first. Don't drone on about yourself, just talk about something you're interested in. Like where you'll be in five years, with a cyborg girlfriend who cooks, and cleans. Then when she tries to add her point of view, tell her "hold on, I'm not finished." And get your point across. Don't be a jerk, or course about it. Just be to the point.

You will have effectively polarized the room.

Then listen to her like she's the smartest woman within three blocks of you.

Title	Deep talk with girls
Author	Zambie-Master
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	July 29, 2022 2:47 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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