My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?

Serious_business28 · 2022-07-27T18:25:53+00:00

I love to roast the guys I date. It’s my toxic trait. Roast me back and I’ll fall in love.

Rorschach_10 · 2022-07-27T17:50:38+00:00

"Did you go to school? " This isn't flirting at all, you don't disrespect someone n call it flirting

hagakurejunkie · 2022-07-27T19:34:11+00:00

I think you’re really putting too much emphasis on a set “goal”. Let the conversation flow naturally, if she’s in, she’ll continue it and you can move from there.

Conversation and seduction should be a dance, keep it light and comfortable the whole time

Trust me when I say, too many guys try to push to fast and it scares women and makes them shutdown. Adopt the attitude that you’re happy to talk to them and have a laugh but you’ll be happy if they decide to leave as well

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-28T00:51:56+00:00

That’s not flirting, that’s teasing the girl. Teasing is not flirting. Flirting is expressing your sexual intent, your desire for her, or that you want her.

Teasing can work well to get her emotional, but getting a girl emotional isn’t necessarily flirting, flirting is going into “damn you are fine, if you keep smiling at me like that, i’m gonna kiss you” that kind of stuff.

THAT_LMAO_GUY · 2022-07-27T18:52:33+00:00

Damn did you go to school😂

Make fun of specific things rather than her as a person. Also you can be meaner when teasing in person than over text. Over text you need to play it safe more. Because the message just sits there. Whereas in person you can recalibrate immediately if she appears offended or something.

Over text Im mostly just getting logistics sorted in order to meet up. Or Im building tension in a safe way by creating and describing frames in which she is chasing me, and how every one of her responses is just confirming my frames legitimacy.

Separate_Taste3428 · 2022-07-27T19:47:31+00:00

It’s normal everyone has their own swag

Therocksays2020 · 2022-07-27T17:14:08+00:00

It really comes down to emotional intelligence. You should get a decent feel for whether someone won’t mind your teasing or not.

What you said wasn’t inherently mean and a lot of women would laugh it off. You’re probably using it on women who find you offensive

eyewave · 2022-07-27T16:59:12+00:00

Imo there's no wrong gently challenging a girl's shortcomings.

Lawlita-In-Miami · 2022-07-27T19:16:07+00:00

Nothing sexier than a kind and warm guy. Don't try so hard to be "cool" and try being nicer. Things will just flow more easily

LegitimateWasabi6183 · 2022-07-27T19:04:06+00:00

Bro you funny asf lmaoo “did you go to school 🤣”

random_question4123 · 2022-07-28T00:36:40+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with the line itself, it’s more about the delivery and also the context.

PB0034 · 2022-07-28T07:26:38+00:00

Should hv used 🙄 instead of 🤣

2022-07-28T08:00:16+00:00

Teasing should be funny. If you like to be merciless, you need to build positive rapport before, so that she would know you like her even though you are being harsh.

Title	My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?
Author	LegitimateWasabi6183
Upvotes	5
Comments	20
Date	July 27, 2022 4:57 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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