Been improving multiple aspects of my life the past few months now. My career, health (hitting the gym), social networks, personal projects, fashion, and my grooming. I've done this all simply to be the best version of myself. And honestly it has been a blast knowing I'm setting my self up for a healthier and more established life when I hit my 30s. As for the dating world, and game in general, that's always been there, here and there and while I could always improve on it, it was never lacking. But the confidence I've gained these past months has been such an improvement. Compliments here and there, attention from some women now, and all in all it's a nice feeling. I'm simply carrying myself with what I believe to be my value. In doing so, I have noticed some old friends/interest are starting to notice and seeking my attention now. I know this isn't a new topic, and I have seen plenty of similar scenarios. But now, I believe I have the choice to initiate/escalate with these old interest....but I feel as if I don't want to. Doesn't sit right with me since I do not think I was their first choice back then. And I can't help but think that im no safety net. But I also know people change and do no want to think of myself as a higher caliber. But out of self respect, I do. Is it wrong to think like this? Additionally, excuse me if I sound like a jerk, I am not trying to. I believe it's me finally realizing what I can bring to the table.