Is any kind of coaching actually legit.

Captain_w00t · 2022-06-28T07:35:40+00:00

I don’t thrust PUA coaches in general, maybe some of them might be useful but I don’t think they’re worth the money invested.

You might start with the basics, by reading a book like “Models” by Mark Manson and putting yourself out there.

The same amount of money might be spent in wardrobe, an haircut, a gym subscription, or traveling somewhere.

The more you “build” yourself (tastes, habits, goals, confidence, boundaries, grooming), the more you’ll see “changes” in your interactions.

If you have fears/insecurities, gradually work on them. For example, many people fears escalations, so they should work on that: starting from light touches, to grabbing hands, hugs, leaning forward for a kiss, etc… Same goes for other details of the interactions (what to say and HOW to say something, picking cues from others, etc…).

5_7pickup · 2022-06-28T10:44:12+00:00

just watch todd v on youtube it's all free

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-28T07:02:05+00:00

I personally never spent any money on coaching or books, but apparently a good coach can shorten your learning curve, so it's not a bad idea if you have the money.

I know James Tusk is legit, I remember reading years ago that Paul Janka is one of the best teachers (mind you that was just an opinion from a forum, I'm not even sure if he's still active), and I heard there are some legit guys in South Africa... On the other hand, I've heard bad things about guys from RSD, that they just tell you to approach and don't teach you much, basically just approach coaches, so it's not useful if you have that part down. It depends where in the world you live, but there are some guys out there that have good knowledge and aren't scammers.

shared0 · 2022-06-28T07:38:41+00:00

I tend to think of them as maybe legit but probably not. I would avoid them. Some of them are probably good people but I just have a distrust for them. They remind me of get rich quick schemes in the finance world I don't know why. Although they probably aren't nearly as bad though tbf. But still.

victorhugogime · 2022-06-28T07:40:06+00:00

Don’t take any advice here.

If you didn’t listen to that.

The advice on how to get game will give you fluff and some stupid numbers game.

The only way to up your “game” is develop a personality. Confidence. Than treat the people you’re engaging with as another human not cattle

There’s no exceptions to this there’s no hidden secret to it. That’s all there is to it. Anyone else is lying.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-06-28T10:19:03+00:00

There is probably no way to completely vet a coach. You just have to pick one that seems legit. Most will have an initial call with you. You can use that to see if they are a fit.

I would recommend karisma king or honest signalz. Not because I know their coaching is good, but that What they teach is my preferred style, mostly natural game. It’s the best style to learn imo.

For instance, you mentioned you like gaming and that girls in clubs see that as nerdy. You can make that work. It’s called natural game. It’s not in the words, rather in understanding the social dynamics that are at play.

But, look around and see who you connect with.

Title	Is any kind of coaching actually legit.
Author	victorhugogime
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Date	June 28, 2022 6:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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