Should I just give up and focus and “improve” myself or continue trying to get better at the game and going out and approaching

citizenmafia · 2022-06-11T03:09:02+00:00

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

burncushlikewood · 2022-06-11T03:32:12+00:00

Women are fickle, they also can be very tough, don't give up! Read some material and keep approaching, this will lead to a snowball effect, you'll get more attention and success as you keep going, it took me 3-4 years of studying and approaching till I figured out what to do. If you need some puas to get started on comment here and I'll tell you. Once again im in here saying the same dudes but people don't know who is the best

ZachMoore88 · 2022-06-11T03:25:50+00:00

How many approaches have you made?

Honest_Inevitable632 · 2022-06-11T02:27:33+00:00

Self-improvements is the way to go. Whether you’re approaching women online or irl, one must opt to create their handsomest version from inside out.

You may be good looking but the goal is to be one of the most attractive amongst her options.

PhilosopherNeku300 · 2022-06-11T03:57:36+00:00

Check your pm's.

daddysgotanew · 2022-06-11T13:06:59+00:00

If women aren’t basically walking up to you or harassing you with messages, you are wasting your time and need to focus on other things in life. Money, enlightenment, whatever you want but women aren’t ever going to be a worthwhile expenditure of time unless you’re top 5 percent or better, and most of that is determined by genetics

2022-06-11T02:48:17+00:00

Well, why are you approaching women? What are your dating goals?

nordik1 · 2022-06-11T04:38:52+00:00

A lot of replies are going to give you general advice, but the truth here is we really need to see your messages to see what's going wrong. By just reading your post, you're giving people the assumption that you're doing everything right and coming up short, but that may not be true. The battles are won or lost when you open your mouth...post up some convos and we can help analyze from a 3rd person perspective to help you out

cangero0 · 2022-06-11T05:16:26+00:00

My two cents are this is the problem with cold approaches. Maybe your wanna take a break from trying to get women and do what fulfills you on your own terms

Riuqlav · 2022-06-11T06:38:47+00:00

I think you should do both, both are good
Being good at conversation creating tension and improving the cold approach is a subset of self-improvement.
By the way, you are talking you are lacking in your inner game and girls can smell the "There’s something wrong with me" feeling from kilometers away.
Matt Artisan gives on his channel this pdf with methods to increase the inner game and the explanation for each, you should read it there's good info in there

There's nothing wrong with you brother, you are just learning like all of us, keep strong!

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-11T13:59:26+00:00

You should quit all this approaching nonsense and "game". It doesn't exist. It's nothing but a big lie to distract you from your real goals and purpose as a man.

Work on your health/body and financial issues. Put yourself on number one completely and be very selfish. Treat women like trash and as if they don't exist. They are truly only here to make your life miserable and to suck your energy and steal your attention.

I approached over 600 women. Got rejected every single time. Wasted all that time while I could have started my own business or could have gone working out.

Women either like you, or they don't.

2022-06-11T18:17:44+00:00

If you just improve without doing anything you won’t get anywhere that’s what I did and it failed

Title	Should I just give up and focus and “improve” myself or continue trying to get better at the game and going out and approaching
Author	throwawayforfun1166
Upvotes	11
Comments	18
Date	June 11, 2022 2:05 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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