Cant get hot women, but not into average ones either. What to do?

Contango6969 · 2022-06-06T17:18:16+00:00

You can get a hot girl to marry you. It will cost you everything though, and she won’t remain hot. It’s basically a Faustian bargain.

2022-06-06T16:07:32+00:00

So you aren’t rich, tall, or particularly good looking but you want a hot woman?

You have to ask yourself what you bring to the table and why these hot girls would want you.

For me I updated my pics and looks on online dating and in turn got interest from hotter girls.

Girl_shout · 2022-06-06T16:19:45+00:00

Ehhh, your opinion will change after you get said "hot" girl and date her for a few years. Average people can be the hottest thing you've ever seen when you give them a fair shot, realize how funny and intelligent and witty and personable they are.

Hot girls are also constantly getting hit on, and tend to want "hot guys" themselves. There's way more competition for you when you finally snag one. And considering you claim to be average your narrowing your chances of holding onto them.

Lower your expectations dude. I wanted a 6'0 blonde hair blued eyed guy for years. I finally got with one and realized they weren't for me. My type has completely changed now. Plus I had the time of my life with average looking dudes- they're the real MVPs. I always root for the underdog.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-06T16:39:27+00:00

You and everyone else.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-06-06T18:03:25+00:00

Either lower your standards or raise your value.

samYELLjacksin · 2022-06-06T18:00:47+00:00

First of all let’s get your ranking system down. Rarely ever do I give out 10s. I would say an example of a 10 to me is go on ig and look up Summer Soderstrom or Erin Michelle Cummins 👈🏽 lol they are what I rarely call 10s and even that’s debatable depending on who you ask. Then going down to an 8 should be unquestionably hot.

7 is where it gets tricky. I usually give 7’s to the cute…not bad…the kind of girls you start trying to pick up when you’ve failed on all the 8-10s. I would call 7s the “settling” type.

6’s are your “a mouths a mouth man” -Chappelle Show reference. And you immediate regret it afterward

Anything lower than a 6…why..just why? Have some god damn standards dudes.

AND NEVER SETTLE. That being said like previous posters…if you want the 8-10s you really better be either be/and/or working on yourself, especially your game, be willing to spend on them money wise

masmiester · 2022-06-06T19:42:34+00:00

You have nothing to offer, so I’m not sure why you think you’re entitled to 9’s and 10’s. I want a Ferrari, but I can’t get one because I don’t have the means. You can desire supermodels but your chance of getting with one is about as slim as winning the lottery. Everyone settles for less than what they expect or wanted., even wealthy people.

AlwaysHighKenBurns · 2022-06-06T21:02:50+00:00

a good tricked i learned from a friend is that girls might have their phone numbers on their pet's collar or address, so when you are talking to them see if you can get an excuse to hold her pet.

Honest_Inevitable632 · 2022-06-06T23:21:56+00:00

You get what you put on the table. Assortative mating

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-06-07T02:20:08+00:00

Well why would they be interested in you if you don't have much going on?

Title	Cant get hot women, but not into average ones either. What to do?
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