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[–]Socialinception 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol what, you expect that a white guy is going to pull the first night after 8 approaches?
Extremely unlikely. You need to give yourself some props for taking action and think about what you could do better, thinking in hypotheticals about what could have happened in an alternative reality is just going to make you bitter.
Focus on what you can improve until you've mastered those things, then if you're still not getting results you can complain about crap like certain races having an advantage.
But you won't, because by then you'll be killing it
[–]jjboy91 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It could be. I'm brown, from India and living in France.
There, girls don't want to be seen in society with a partner that is from a minority.
The reason mostly are the lack of representation, stereotypes, and judgment from others making them insecure.
In every poll Indians living in Europe are the least preferred ethnicity.
It's even more obvious on dating apps because people for some reason allow themselves to be disrespectful and mean.
[–]creative_i_am_not 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not about minority, it's about attractiveness. If you are good looking on tinder, no matter your ethnicity you will pull easily. Indians might struggle a bit more because on average their traits are just less attractive for europeans.
Everything else will struggle and there might be a difference but it's probably like going from 0.5% match rate to 0.3%
[–]mookyvon 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would love to go out with someone who is your average dude and can consistently pull hot girls from night game. Obviously it can be done, I've just never seen it.
[–]Mindless_Canary5130 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is not the case, I am an Indian (brown boy) and was insecured as fuck as you think that you are at disadvantage but this is not the case, Most of the time, Interaction I had girls are unable to judge my ethnicity and ended up saying I am from different place and when I disclose I am from India they don’t even care bc I already got girl attracted to me. I pulled Latinas and white girls and never had this issue about being Indian. It is upto you how you think about yourself.
[–]bllewellyn_1 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't ask if you can talk to her. It's a chance for her to say no. Good job making that many approaches
[–]ZachMoore88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, indeed. And don't ask to sit either......just do it. She doesn't own the chair next to her.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know where I read but I remember something along the lines of
“people perceive others as beautiful depending on how close they are to the average of faces they saw trough their life”
So if you’re a minority, you’re at disadvantage from the start.
This probably doesn’t apply to whites because pop culture is dominated by American entertainment industry.
[–]rhofire 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
the results would have been different if I was white (I'm brown).
The results would have been different if you were more confident and led the interactions somewhere. You didn’t even tell any of them to call you or give you their phone number.
[–]XripXitXmommyX 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If OP had the courage to approach 8 girls I’m assuming he has the courage to close. However he probably sensed that these girls were not very interested in which case chasing them would be a waste of time and energy
[–]rhofire 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What’s the basis of your assumption?
[–]XripXitXmommyX 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Context clues and logical thinking fam
[–]rhofire 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I thought as much. You’re working with your imagination. But, you need real life experience here. Your assumption is wrong.
[–]XripXitXmommyX 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
All I’m saying is telling OP to ask for numbers and telling girls to call him that don’t even find him somewhat attractive won’t help his situation.
Your assuming he hasn’t done any of those things which he probably has from and the problem lies in his mindset.
Now the real solution if OP really wants to have a higher % to achieve his goal are things like pursuing more brown women, or girls and relationships that don’t put complete emphasis on physical attraction which as he stated is what he’s lacking in.
You don’t look for life partners at the club. You look for short flings. Which is exactly what isn’t going to favor him.
Don’t say someone is wrong in stating a simple fact that he has a lower chance of getting laid since he’s brown. He isn’t making an excuse but stating a statistical fact. The sooner he accepts that and plays a different game that’s in his favor the faster he can win and achieve his goal.
So yeah I’m pretty damn right 😂
[–]rhofire 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t have enough experience to know what you’re talking about. All that you’ve said is conventional advice, not applicable in real life.
I’m not white either, it has never reduced my chances of getting what I want.
[–]Amikatey 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really Nice man. The results are longterm.. It's already a victory by just approaching..
[–]spiderSlayerr 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If your brown approach brown and dark skinned girls. If you approach white girls they aren’t gonna be sexually attracted
[–]quadfintryfin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unless they’re into dark skinned men
Everyone wants what they’re not used to lol
[–]whale_sports 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Always cool to think these girls don't like you bc youre "brown"....
Keep up that attitude!👍
[–]inawlaah 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Wouldn’t quite agree. If you think you get rejected because you re brown. It will affect your confidence when you approach girls.
It doesn’t matter if you brown black red yellow green. A girl is a girl. A boy is a boy. Sex is sex.
[–]blck_bstinson 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
His comment was sarcasm bruh
[–]RyuThe13th 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
true btw ever dated a brown guy? asking for a friend
[–]inawlaah 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I date girls, but ask ahead
[–]RyuThe13th 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I believe in you.
[+]tavaryn_t -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Girls usually have a good instinct at detecting creeps.
[–]YouNWA 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And who isn’t a creep? No matter how smoothe you think you are, to the wrong girl you’ll come off as a creep. Just try your luck, and if you get rejected onto the next one
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
???
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Maybe if you radically change your mindset to "The chicas love me exactly because I'm brown", I'm 90% sure you'll have more success rates.
[–]XripXitXmommyX 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. Personality really counts for nothing to people who are looking for one night and short flings. At best he would maybe have a bit better time since he’s not stressing about himself
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm not here to debate with you. Either question your assumptions, or stay stuck where you are.
[–]XripXitXmommyX 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s irrelevant to OP’s post and hypocritical of you to say something so argumentative. Dumb response honestly.
All I’m saying is OP changing his personality won’t get him anymore bitches at the club. That’s no what they lookin for😂
Sure.
[–]Mmm91for -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Game is universal it doesn’t matter what your skin colour is. If you got it then you got them🤷♂️
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Cold approach inefficient
[–]timetobbetter 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Got some input to back up that statement? The world is square dont you know?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you think cold approach is efficient?
Please back it up. Because there is plenty of data proving cold approach to be very inefficient.
[–]timetobbetter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t make a statement about cold approach being efficient or inefficient. I also don’t owe you any information. It’s a shame that you aren’t able to grasp concepts and instead just spew statements claiming there are sources supporting your opinion but turns out they’re from The Onion.
[–]Protocol_Apollo -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Often times when people pull the race card, it’s typically because they look like a stereotype of it.
Eg how’s your fashion? Do you lift? Grooming?
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why would you think your color has anything to do with your success or failure? White privilege is a myth.
[–]zertsetzung 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Good deal. Its 20:52 here right now. Best to start early in the club.
Bitches get sloppier the later it is in the night.
[–]timetobbetter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As does the ability for someone to consent. Go earlier. You can have more cognitive conversations and reduce the legal ramifications if you take someone whose sober back to your place
[–]zertsetzung -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Technically you could circumvent that if you end up drunker then the girls you hit on.
Thats how most frats go about picking up drunk chicks.
[–]timetobbetter 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And that’s why most frats have had multiple offenses against them by university students. I feel that it happens way too often where a girl is drunk and the guy clearly takes advantage. That is not seduction. That’s something else.
Although I do agree. It is best to start early in the club. You get to build rapport while you’re there chatting. Let’s you warm up without really even trying.
[–]DubDeuceInThisBih 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imma need you to listen to this song called Brown Boy by an artist called NAV. I'm not really a fan just happened to catch it by accident but it'll help your swag. congrats on getting out there.
[–]methmonkeysyrup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t understand it because I get laid with decent quality and I’m a short, hairy average looking alcoholic with a drug problem and all these dudes who are into game and self improvement seem to be struggling, it boggles my mind.
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