How do you approach a super hot girl if your not super hot?

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-05-27T12:55:18+00:00

Confidence. You can’t fake that. Achievements can build confidence…maybe do that?

SocialReject101 · 2022-05-27T13:17:31+00:00

You give me vibes of a karma points collector judging by your post volume and history. I have seen you posting different questions here about approaching and its potential trials and tribulations as well and my question to you is - have you even started approaching?

ManCakes22 · 2022-05-27T13:40:12+00:00

Guys don’t bother commenting here. OP is arguing against every bit of advice that we are trying to give him.

OP your attitude right here is a 100% guarantee that even if you approach one of these girls, they won’t want to spend any time around you.

Acid_In_My_Eyes · 2022-05-27T13:34:10+00:00

Treat her like you would treat any other girl that you find interesting. Also, don't praise her for her appearance much, she has already enough of it. Remain a challenge for her and present your value naturally.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-27T13:59:57+00:00

Start by treating her as another regular person that has nothing special going on for her by taking her off the pedestal.

If she rejects you so be it.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-05-27T13:14:46+00:00

You approach her the same as if you were hot.

NineteenAD9 · 2022-05-27T13:25:15+00:00

There's nothing rare or special about being "super hot". There's beautiful women in every city.

Your approach shouldn't change. She's a regular person until she proves otherwise.

No_Grocery_4261 · 2022-05-27T14:13:33+00:00

You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

Think about it. If you lose, you already have an alibi. Nobody will judge you for that, least of all yourself.

Also if you’re getting rejected by ugly girls anyways, why not try for hot girls and get rejected by them?

Only_Commercial_774 · 2022-05-27T14:34:49+00:00

She’s not special go ask her out shamelessly

nosepickergabe · 2022-05-27T14:50:31+00:00

Did you know that super hot girls are usually the most self conscious? That so many men are too afraid of getting rejected they tend to ask women like that out . I say be confident in yourself and talk to her. The worst she can say is no or she's not interested.

Cowboy-as-a-cat · 2022-05-27T14:53:25+00:00

Why would you not believe in thinking of yourself as hot but you think women are hot. If you took to the method of thinking nobody is physically attractive you could go for someone who’s (ik how this sounds) a 10/10 on the inside. I’m almost sure you don’t “believe in thinking of yourself as hot” as you stated in another comment because you’re not hot, and if the statement of me saying you’re not hot bothers you then it is not true that you don’t believe in your “mindset”. If you don’t care about your own looks why should a woman care about yours? Or why should you care about theirs? If you dgaf about your but do about a woman’s looks you are sexualizing and objectifying women which is literally the worst thing you can do for dating.

Obviously if you’re buttfuck ugly you need other traits to date, even if you’re decently attractive if you don’t have your shit together and are a complete loser in all other walks of life you will not get women. Why would a woman settle for someone less attractive than them who also brings nothing else to the table personality or career wise. Would you date a 3/10 woman if she was a loser who did nothing but smoke weed, eat, and watch tv? Obviously not.

Learn how to talk to PEOPLE, not just women but PEOPLE. Learn how to talk to women as PEOPLE. Stop putting pussy on a pedestal, pussies cool and all but it’s not like it’s an answer to all your other problems. Invest in yourself, that fact you don’t believe in thinking you’re hot shows how unconfident you are. Go to the gym, get good at a hobby, go to school and excel in your field, do anything interesting. If you can’t love yourself or do anything good with your life without women you’re not gonna do much better with women.

I will reiterate: STOP PUTTING PUSSY ON A PEDESTAL

2022-05-27T15:13:30+00:00

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2022-05-27T15:24:14+00:00

Approach with confidence but don’t invest in the outcome

Jay-Ames · 2022-05-27T16:08:51+00:00

The same way as if you are hot.

With confidence. Feel free to use the opener i always use. I don't mind.

I always say: Hi, what's your name?

invaderjif · 2022-05-27T16:18:30+00:00

With your legs 🦵 🦵

Title	How do you approach a super hot girl if your not super hot?
Author	Acid_In_My_Eyes
Upvotes	0
Comments	54
Date	May 27, 2022 12:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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